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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

It is customary with most women that whenever they go to attend a party, walimah, wedding ceremony, naming ceremony or a gathering, they wear their best dresses 👚👗👠👜 and adorn themselves with the best. However, upon returning home,....🙆🏻‍♀, they take their dresses off and put on an old and shabby dress😀. These women are not particular about cleanliness at home and do not care about beautifying themselves at home. Yes. They walk around the house with disheveled hair, stained clothes, and torn socks😀. While in the real sense, the situation should be reverse, that is, a woman should adorn herself at home and charm her husband in order to conquer his heart and in order not to leave any gap for other women to fill.

Madam❗

Why should you look beautiful for others? Is it proper for a woman to expose her beauty before the eyes of other men and to create problems for the general public?

"In one of the authentic hadeeth, the Prophet (PBUH) stated that : 👉🏻 ''Any woman who perfumes herself and leaves the house, is deprived from the blessings of the Almighty Allah until she returns home'."

In another hadeeth,

"The Prophet (PBUH) also stated: 👉🏻 'The best of your women is one who is obedient towards her husband, adorns herself for her husband but does not reveal her adornment to strangers; and the worst of your women is one who adorns herself in the absence of her husband'."

Madam❗

Winning the heart ❤ of a man,, especially for a long time,, is not easy. Yes. Do not think ~  "He already loves me. So, I don't need to look beautiful for him or try to win his heart or entice him.". You must always maintain his love towards yourself or else, pretty ladies outside will surprise you😀. Yes. Be sure that, your husband would enjoy having a tidy beautiful and clean wife, even though he may not express it. Yes. If you do not satisfy his inner desires and do not dress attractively at home, he may see beautiful and attractive women outside the house, and he may then, become disheartened in you and might deviate from you and follow those clean looking babes outside😀.

When your husband sees attractive women outside, he compares you with them😀. If you are an untidy, careless, and disheveled woman, he would think that other women are angels who have descended from the heavens. So, try to look attractive at home all the time and that will not make him lose interest in you.

*Read the following letter written by a husband to his wife's parents:*👇

"One cannot distinguish my wife from the baggers on the street. I swear by Allah that,, I sometimes think - I wish she would wear one of these dresses made for ceremonies at home, even once. I wish she would throw away those torn and worn out clothes. I have told her several times - 'darling! At least wear those nice dresses at home too.. 'She told me  - 'I don't need to be particular when I am at home; but if one day I look untidy in the presence of my colleagues and friends, then, it would be embarrassing for me'."

My people!

We all believe that, while house-keeping and cooking, a woman cannot dress up or look beautiful. This may be true but a wise housewife can have different clothes for doing the housework and she can change her working clothes to proper ones while she is in the presence of her husband or when he returns home. Yes. Madam❗You can always comb your hair and keep yourself clean after the housework.

It's disappointing to see a house wife not only looking very dirty at home herself, but even her bedroom and the all house😀. Yes. Some women will be so careless to the extent that, they allowed kids to eat and drop the remaining pieces of bread and biscuits and even pair of children's shoes on her bed😀, and will leave it there uptil the time her husband will come in.

TO BE CONTINUED