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*You need not Sulk when you have little misunderstanding with your husband*

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

It is customary with some women that, when upset with their husbands, they sulk, refuse to talk, do not attend to household work, hit the children, or grumble😀. Some wives may even keep malice with their husband for longer than necessary. They believe that, not speaking, or quarrelling are the best possible ways of revenging their husbands.

Honestly,

This attitude, not only fails to punish the man, but may result in his retaliation. Yes. And life then, becomes difficult, turning into a series of quarrels. The woman moans, then, the man does😀. The woman refuses to talk and the man retaliates.. The woman does something else, and the man does the same until they become tired and, through the mediation of relatives or friends, reconcile.. But this is not the only time they had a row.. There will be other occasions and there will be a few more days of bitterness.

Therefore,

Madam, you should remember that if your husband reacts harshly towards you, for not speaking with him, then, he might even resort to severe measures such as going to catch fun with pretty ladies outside or even neglecting you completely.. You would probably leave your house to go to your parents' as the result of his harsh reaction. Next, your parents would interfere and the rows between your husband and you would widen. You might end up getting a divorce in which case, you would lose more than your husband. Yes. Don't you see the population of unmarried ladies & women outside? Why can't you keep your marriage by all means? You will certainly regret a divorce.

This reminds me,

"A woman said: 'I got married some time ago. I did not know much about caring for my husband and he did not know much about looking after me.. We used to have row everyday. One week, I wasn't talking and the week after he was refusing to speak to me.. Only on Fridays, through the mediation of friends and relatives, we used to be on good terms. Gradually, my husband became disappointed with me and thought of divorcing me and remarrying.. Since I was young, I was not prepared to change and did not object to a divorce. We got divorced and I rented a flat.. Soon I realized the dangers.. Most of the people, whom I met, were out to deceive me.. I decided to reconcile with my former husband and called at his house. There, I met a lady friend who used to advised me to take a revenge on everything my husband does to me - introduced herself to me as his wife.. I cried all the way back to my house.. I regretted my divorce, but it was too late'."

Madam!

You should seriously avoid sulking and not talking to your husband.. If you are upset with him, be patient. Once you are calm and collected, talk to him gently about your annoyance with him. You can tell him, for instance, "You insulted me yesterday, or you rejected my demand.. Is it fair that you should treat me in this way?"

Such an approach, not only relaxes you within, but also would admonish him.. He would then, try to make up for his wrongdoing and would respect you for your good manners. As a result, he would review his behaviour, and would try to discipline himself.

In an authentic hadith, the Prophet (PBUH) stated: 👉🏻 "At a time when two Muslims refuse to talk to each other and do not reconcile within three days, both will be out of Islam, and there will not remain any friendship between them. Then anyone of them who takes the initiative to reconcile with the other, would enter Paradise faster (than the other) on the Day of Judgment'." 📚 Hadith

TO BE CONTINUED

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك