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 *Family Managers*

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*"Wrong Expectations & competitive rivalry"*

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Madam!... You are the mistress of your household. Be wise, reasonable and understanding. Keep an account of your expenses. Budget your expenditures in a way that it is not detrimental to your husband's back pocket, wealth and honor..l Yes. Do not compete with others and be envious of them. If you see a nice dress on a woman or if you become interested in some furnishings that you have seen at a friend's or relative's house, do not compel your husband to purchase them, which is beyond his financial means and would force him to borrow.

Isn't it better to wait until your budget is higher or there is some extra saving to make non-essential purchases?

It is mostly the ignorant and selfish women who succumb to extravagance and rivalry.. These women force their husbands to be under debt and they become exhausted and disgusted in trying to satisfy the unsuitable demands of their wives.. Sometimes, the only solution to these problems for the men is to go for a divorce or even commit suicide😃.

The women who have not perceived the true purpose and meaning of marriage and instead, they regard it in terms of bondage where the husband is acquired to fulfill their childish desires and material needs. They want a husband who will serve them like a slave and will not object to their way of spending. These women sometimes even go further, making their husbands spend more than their means which may entail bankruptcy,, murder,, and other disastrous consequences😀.

Such women are a disgrace to other women.. And If her high expectations lead to divorce, or the husband go unbearably indebted, the woman will be deprived of the love of her husband and children, and will have to live a life of frustration.. For these women, remarriage will not happen easilyif they are divorced😳. Yes. Even if it does happen, it is not certain that the marriage will work out since most human beings do not like to be kept in unreasonable bondage and the new husband may not be able to meet their demands any better than the previous one.

Madam❗

Instead of being covetous, try to be reasonable. Spend more time and effort for the well-being of your family and husband rather than trying to imitate everyone. Yes. If your husband spends lavishly, then, stop him and curb his unnecessary expenses.. And Instead of buying non-essential commodities, it is better to save some money for a rainy day.

"The Holy Prophet (PBUH) stated that: 👉🏻 'Any woman who is not compatible with her husband and persuades him to act beyond his capacity, then, her deeds would not be accepted by Allah. She would taste the wrath of Allah on the Day of Resurrection'." 📚 Hadith

In another Tradition, the Prophet (PBUH) stated:

"Any woman who is not compatible with her husband is not content with what Allah has blessed them with, and treats her husband harshly by demanding him to give more than he is able, then, her acts (or worship) are not acceptable by Allah and He (Allah) will be angry with her'." 📚 Hadith

TO BE CONTINUED

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سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك