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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Everyone, except those that Allah has declared as "Infallible" makes mistakes. And when two people, who love together and cooperate with each other, make mistakes, they must be forgiving each other. And if they do not forgive each other, then, their marriage will come to an end😳. Yes Madam.. Two business partners, two neighbours, two colleagues, two friends, and specifically, a husband and a wife need to be able to forgive each other.

If the members of a family are unforgiving and pursue each other's mistakes, then, either the family will separate or they will experience an unbearable life.

Madam!

Your husband probably makes mistakes. He may insult you or abuse you due fraustration resulting from economic meltdown or tell lies sometimes. Such acts might be committed by any man, even though there behaviors are not allowed in Islam. So, If your husband, after making a mistake, regrets it or you feel he is directly or indirectly regretful for his misconduct, then, forgive him and do not follow shaytan by pursuing the matter. Yes. If he is regretful but not prepared to express his apologies, then, do not try to prove his mistake.. Otherwise, he might feel humiliated and he may retaliate by picking out your mistakes and consequently start a major row.. So, it is better for you to remain silent until he condemns himself from his conscience and starts to feel remorse about it.. He would then regard you as wise and devoted wife who is interested in her husband and family.

Madam!

Sometimes, men generally have small ego that prevent them from saying - *"I'M SORRY"* - when they offend their wife. But you will see it in them by their actions expressing their guilt. Yes. Some men may buy you some gifts (eatable or drinkable or something) without requesting for it, some may join you to help in doing some housework or even crack some jokes with you.. All these are indirect way of saying *"i'm sorry"* 😀 So, i advice that you don't demand that he open his mouth 👄 and say it in word - *"I'M SORRY"* - before you forgive him, if he has express  it *indirectly* in his actions towards you.

Madam!

One of my shiekhs said and i quote - *"It is only a bad woman who does not forgive her husband's mistake and does not accept his apology"*

And,

Allah the Exalted say:

ﻭَﻟْﻴَﻌْﻔُﻮﺍﻭَﻟْﻴَﺼْﻔَﺤُﻮﺍۗﺃَﻟَﺎﺗُﺤِﺒُّﻮﻧَنَﻧﻴَﻐْﻔِﺮَﺍلله.لكم.َﺍﻟﻠَّه.ُﻐَﻔُﻮﺭٌﺭَّﺣِﻴﻢٌ

"Let them pardon and overlook. Would you not love for Allah to forgive you? Allah is Forgiving and Merciful" 📚Surah Ashura 42:43,

In another verse, Allah (swt) say:

ﻭَﻟَﻤَﻨﺼَﺒَﺮَﻭَﻏَﻔَﺮَﺇِﻧَّﺬَٰﻟِﻜَﻠَﻤِﻨْﻌَﺰْﻣِﺎﻟْﺄُﻣُﻮﺭِ

"Whoever is patient and forgives, verily, that is among the matters of steadfast determination".

Therefore,

My sister!.. Try to Forgive yi hubby no matter how mighty is the offence so that Allah (swt) will not only forgive you too BUT reward you handsomely.

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك