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DON'T BLAME ANYONE FOR YOUR WIFE NOT CONCEIVING.

 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS.  Yaum Al-Khamis. 14th day of Sha’abaan. (Thursday, 17th of March, 2022).

*_DON'T BLAME ANYONE FOR YOUR WIFE NOT CONCEIVING_*. Bismillah. 


ALLAH says;

The dominion of the heavens and the earth belongs to HIM. HE creates whatever HE pleases. HE grants females to whomever HE pleases and males to whomever HE pleases, or grants them a mix of males and females, and causes whomever HE pleases to be BARREN. HE is All-Knowing, All-Powerful. (Quran 42 vs 49-50). Allahu Akbar. 


From the above verses, we know that nothing happens without ALLAH'S authority. So when ALLAH Subhaanahu wa Ta'ala , in HIS Infinite Wisdom, tests us with a situation that we think is difficult or takes away something that in our mind was good for us, we need to remember that perhaps it may not be so. Some brothers even divorce their wives for not conceiving: thus not a joke but ignorance. astaqfirullah. 


Sheikh Al-Hasan al-Basri said: 'Do not resent the calamities that come and the disasters that occur, for perhaps in something that you dislike will be your salvation, and perhaps in something that you prefer will be your doom. ALLAH, the Almighty says, which means,

“And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. ALLAH knows but you do not know.”(AI-Baqarah, 2:216). 


*_We ask ALLAH to aid us to be able to understand HIS test on us and ease our sufferings and grant us our heart desires only if it will be a source of meeting HIM in Jannah_*. Aameen.

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