SIGNS OF A PIOUS HUSBAND.
Alhamdulillah, a husband is someone who is legally married by the shari'a to a woman by the acceptance of her waliyy and agreed mahr with two just witnesses.
When these three are present,marriage is valid.
Islamic marriage can be done and later the mahr price is paid by the two families including the wife.
Mahr is obligatory as Allah says,
And give the woman her mahr price. Surah 4;3.
The mahr is not necessary money but is a gift given to a woman to please her.
Signs of a pious and responsibility husband.
Firstly, he is someone who fear Allah in secret or public and knows his wife is an amanah upon him which he will be questioned about her on qiyaamah.
Also the husband should provide for his wife as he can even if his income is less. He and the woman should come on agreeable terms.
Also he should teach his wife the deen and be ready to take her pains and worries away.
He should be loveable and playful to her. The messenger of Allah pbuh used to crack jokes with his wives, play with them and even help them in the house chores.
A pious husband will never abuse his wife or cause injury to her but will take care of her like an egg to avoid splitting it.
The messenger of Allah pbuh said,
The woman is created from the upper rib of the man and that is the part that is crooked. If he tries to straighten it will break it but should treat it with care.
(Tirmidhee).
A pious husband will make sure his wife and his children are following the deen and sunnah.
He always try to build a swadaqah charity for himself in the grave by instilling the deen to his children.
Yaa Allah! Grants us a pious families. Aamin
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