Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam Episode 6

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Guidelines To Intimacy In Islam

Episode 6

WOMEN’S RIGHT TO SEX

Like men, women have sexual needs. However, unlike men, they have more control over their sexual urges than men, due to their inherent physical and emotional temperament.A woman will not normally demand the fulfilment of her sensual needs. Instead, when she is in the mood, she will employ various means of seducing her husband, by adorning herself, talking to him enticingly, and gazing at him longingly. 

Medical experts are of the opinion that a woman's sexual desire reaches its peak 

directly after the completion of her menstrual cycle. A perceptive husband realises this and is responsive to her signals. It is the religious duty of the husband to fulfil the sensual needs of his wife. If he does not, he will be a sinner. 

Amr ‘Ibn Abdullaah was a Sahabi who use to fast every day and engage in Ibaadah the entire night, so much so that whatever of the Quraan was revealed, be it 300 or 400 pages, he recited it in Tahajjud. When he got married his father use to ask his wife how he was treating her. She used to say, "An excellent man! A man who has not slept with us in bed nor removed the veil from us since we came to him!" 

Abdullah's father, 'Amr then went to inform Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم about him. Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم called him and told him, "Do not do it. Fast and break the fast, and make Salaah and sleep, because your 

body has a right over you, your eye has a right over you, your wife has a right over you, and your visitor has a right over you. 

In this Hadith, Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم advises 'Abdullah ibn Amrto be moderate in his worship, and on learning that he had not slept with his wife, Rasulullaah صلى الله عليه وسلم said to him, "Your wife has a right over you," clearly defining the husband's responsibility to fulfil his wife's sexual and other needs.