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*The Happiest Woman in the World*
*(A Treasure Chest of Reminders)*
*Part 7 of 4*
*YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR IDLE TALK*
"How wonderful is the situation of the believer, for his affairs are all good." [Hadīth]
Avoid arguments and getting involved in futile discussions about things that may never happen, because that causes anxiety and annoyance. Do not always try to convince people about matters that are open to different points of view, rather, simply state your view quietly without getting angry or trying to pressurise others. Avoid refuting or criticising others too much, for that will make you feel uneasy and give others the wrong impression about you. Say what you have to say in a kind and gentle manner, then you will be able to win people over and inspire them. Moreover, worry and distress lead to backbiting about others and putting them down, which takes away reward, brings you a burden of sin and destroy tranquility. So, pay attention to correcting your own faults and forget about people's faults, for Allāh did not create us perfect and infallible; rather, we all have sins and faults. So, glad tidings are to the one who focuses on dealing with his own faults rather than the faults of others.
"The mother whose child falls from a high place should not waste time weeping; rather, she should focus on tending to his injuries."
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur'an 51:55)
*The Happiest Woman in the World*
*(A Treasure Chest of Reminders)*
*Part 7 of 4*
*YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR IDLE TALK*
"How wonderful is the situation of the believer, for his affairs are all good." [Hadīth]
Avoid arguments and getting involved in futile discussions about things that may never happen, because that causes anxiety and annoyance. Do not always try to convince people about matters that are open to different points of view, rather, simply state your view quietly without getting angry or trying to pressurise others. Avoid refuting or criticising others too much, for that will make you feel uneasy and give others the wrong impression about you. Say what you have to say in a kind and gentle manner, then you will be able to win people over and inspire them. Moreover, worry and distress lead to backbiting about others and putting them down, which takes away reward, brings you a burden of sin and destroy tranquility. So, pay attention to correcting your own faults and forget about people's faults, for Allāh did not create us perfect and infallible; rather, we all have sins and faults. So, glad tidings are to the one who focuses on dealing with his own faults rather than the faults of others.
"The mother whose child falls from a high place should not waste time weeping; rather, she should focus on tending to his injuries."
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur'an 51:55)
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