Muslim sister cannot marry Non-Muslim. Reasons and outcomes

 *Muslim sister cannot marry Non-Muslim. Reasons and outcomes.*

Bismillaah - First of all, Allah SWT the most wise and ever knowing has already revealed in the Qur’an that a believing woman cannot marry a non believer. Allah says:

And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember” [al-Baqarah 2:221]

Reasons

1. In every culture men dominate women, so despite promising you that he will convert, as soon as you agree and marry him, he turn away from his promise. And for sure he will dominate and control. We have seen many of them. 

2. When you bring a child, a child normally follows the lifestyle of his father including religion and habits. So if that happens, which legacy are you leaving behind as a believer? That, you brought a mushrik to this world? Not a good legacy.

3. When you intimate him sexually, he doesn't purify himself, so you live in a life of impurity and najas. Also they do not clean after toilet. 

4. He uses your room to worship someone other than Allah. Which means you help someone associate partners to Allah. Is that a legacy you want to have? 

5. Whether you like it or not, he drinks alcohol, eats pork, or other haram food and drinks. And you have to live with that all your life. Probably you might eat knowingly or unknowingly. 

6. If care is not taken, time will come when he will directly or indirectly stop you from practicing your religion or perhaps interrupt you.

7. When you love and marry a non Muslim here is what you infer. You are inferring that despite Allah's command, you love and prefer non Muslim over your creator. Which means if you have any respect and love for Allah, you will not even think about marrying a non Muslim in the first place. Going against Allah is something that even Shaitan could not do. No one can stand a fight with Allah. And Allah says in hadith qudsi :

If my servant forget me, i will surely forget them. In another hadith, The Messenger says, in the day of qiyamah, you are resurrected with the one you love in dunya. If you love the Messenger, you will be raised with him, if you love non believers you will be raised with them. 

8. Surely there will be no blessing in the marriage or what the marriage has produced. For example, children, you can hardly produce good children. And remember, both parents play a vital role in the tarbiyyah of a child. So what tarbiyyah do you want your child to have?

In conclusion, do not for once think about it. Find a Muslim like you and marry. A non Muslim does not love Allah and his messenger. He is an enemy of Islam and Allah. Some of them are good in their words, they sound truthful and convincing, and they can say anything to make you fall for them. But internally, they are evildoers. The condition of marrying them is simple, tell him to take the shahada. Don't marry immediately, give him time to adjust to his new religion. Study him carefully, then seek Allah's help and marry him.

Assaalam Alaikum.

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