Married Women* [[----- Episode 1-----]]

 *Married Women*

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بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

Marriage, like a vast ocean, has its calm waves and violent storms. As the famous proverb goes, *"Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors."* Every married Muslim woman must understand that the journey of matrimony is a test of patience, resilience, and faith. And if you are going to live with your spouse for the next 10, 20, or even 50 years, you must brace yourself for both sunshine and rain. 

Allah (swt) says in the Qur’an: 

"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy..." 📚(Qur’an 30:21) 

But let’s be real—affection and mercy do not mean the absence of conflict. Even the best of marriages experience turbulence. The key is not to panic when the ride gets bumpy but to hold on firmly with faith and wisdom. 

*The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and Khadijah (RA): A Love Story with Lessons*
 
The marriage of the Prophet (pbuh) and Khadijah (RA) is often hailed as the epitome of love and devotion. Yet, even their blessed union was not without trials. Before prophethood, the Prophet (pbuh) faced financial hardships, societal rejection, and immense stress. Khadijah (RA) stood by him like a rock, proving that *"a strong marriage requires two strong pillars."* 

My people!

Umar ibn Al-Khattab (RA) once said: 

"If a man were to be given all that he dislikes in his wife in exchange for all that he loves, no marriage would ever last."

This profound statement reminds us that no spouse is perfect. Marriage is about balancing the scales—accepting flaws while appreciating virtues. 

Today,

Many women fall into the trap of comparing their marriages to the seemingly flawless relationships they see on social media. But remember: *"Comparison is the thief of joy."* Yes. Social media shows the highlight reel, not the behind-the-scenes struggles. And Every couple fights—what matters is how they reconcile.

My sister,

When arguments arise, ask yourself:

*"Will this matter in 5 years?"*

*"Is my ego worth sacrificing peace?"*

A wise woman knows that sometimes, silence is the best response. As the saying goes, *"A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves a thousand moments of regret."* 

Besides,

A strong marriage isn’t one without problems; it’s one where both spouses work through them together. This reminds me of an inspiring story of Bilqees and her husband. They both lived......

To be continued

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