Married Women* [[---- Episode 2 ----]]

 *Married Women*

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بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

In today’s digital age, smartphones have become both a blessing and a curse, especially in marriages. While technology keeps couples connected, it has also birthed an epidemic of suspicion, where wives—driven by fear or past experiences—relentlessly monitor their husbands' phone activities. This overzealous scrutiny, often disguised as "care," is silently eroding trust, fueling resentment, and breaking marriages at an alarming rate. 

*"Where There’s Smoke, There’s Fire—But Sometimes It’s Just Steam"*

Misinterpretation is the devil in disguise. A harmless late-night text, an unknown caller, or a deleted message can spark unnecessary fires. As the old saying warns, *"A little knowledge is a dangerous thing."* Wives who jump to conclusions based on incomplete information often ignite conflicts that could have been avoided with been silent.

Dearest Muslimah,

Marriage is a sacred bond ordained by Allah (SWT), a divine instruction wrapped in wisdom and mercy. As Allah (swt) says in the Qur’an: 

*"And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts."* 📚(Qur’an 30:21) 

When Allah commands something, He also guarantees its success— *if we follow His path.* A righteous wife who fulfills her duties with patience, trust, and faith will be rewarded immensely, both in this life and the hereafter. But remember, *"A stitch in time saves nine"*—meaning, acting wisely now prevents greater problems later.

My sister,

We must always remember that every moment spent in patience, kindness, and trust within marriage is an act of worship.

Now,

*A Husband’s Wrongdoing is Between Him and Allah – Divine Justice Never Fails*

Allah is *Al-Adl (The Just)* and *Al-Haseeb (The Reckoner).* If a man wrongs his wife—whether through neglect, harshness, or infidelity—Allah’s punishment is far greater than any worldly consequence, as such men will face Allah's punishment before death, in their grave and in the hearafter. 

So why exhaust yourself monitoring his phone, stalking his chats, or losing sleep over his sins? *"Let sleeping dogs lie"*—focus on your own righteousness, and leave his account with Allah. 

*"Curiosity killed the cat."*

Digging into his phone, questioning his every move, and policing his interactions will only *destroy your peace and push him further away.* Instead, *"Give him enough rope to hang himself"*—if he’s wrong, Allah will expose him. If he’s innocent, you’ve saved your marriage from unnecessary strife.

Muslim sisters,

Let us face a hard truth: *if a man desires to hide something from his wife, no amount of phone monitoring will stop him.* A wise proverb says, *"The thief who is determined to steal will always find a key to the lock."*  And a woman who digs too deep into her husband’s secrets may one day uncover what she cannot bury😃.

To be continued

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