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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 27*
*WHEN YOU CAN'T CONCEIVE A CHILD*
So sad that lots of couples after trying so many times but they still fail to conceive. However, child is one of the many things that is controlled by Allāh (Sub-haanahu wata'aala). He gives who he wants and denies who he wants, not because they are cursed or hated by Allah. But because it is his decision to decide who, when and how. However, some couples when not given they try other means such as IVF. But others cannot try because it is expensive or they simply have trust on Allah to make his decision.
Wise couples who are not blessed with a child, they try other means such as child adoption. Child adoption is a very beautiful thing in Islam. The messenger of Allah encourages the adoption of children because he himself adopted a child. Moreso, adopting an orphan child is even more important. Because the Messenger of Allah says whosoever wipes away the tears of an orphan, will surely be rewarded with paradise. And whosoever adopts a child, I and him (The messenger) will be standing next to each other in Jannah (Sahih al-Bukhari).
My brothers and sisters, there are hundreds and thousands of kids around the world. They are parentless, they don't even know what it means to have a mother's warmth. They are just hoping that someday someone would come and extend a hand. Thus, we can search around even among our family members who left behind their kids. The beauty is that one can adopt even if they have children. So go and adopt a child and stop complaining about not being able to raise a child. Every child is a child, regardless of who bore the child. Sometimes your adopted children show mercy to you more than your own. Many people have adopted and the children became the coolness of their heart. So go and adopt a child.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 27*
*WHEN YOU CAN'T CONCEIVE A CHILD*
So sad that lots of couples after trying so many times but they still fail to conceive. However, child is one of the many things that is controlled by Allāh (Sub-haanahu wata'aala). He gives who he wants and denies who he wants, not because they are cursed or hated by Allah. But because it is his decision to decide who, when and how. However, some couples when not given they try other means such as IVF. But others cannot try because it is expensive or they simply have trust on Allah to make his decision.
Wise couples who are not blessed with a child, they try other means such as child adoption. Child adoption is a very beautiful thing in Islam. The messenger of Allah encourages the adoption of children because he himself adopted a child. Moreso, adopting an orphan child is even more important. Because the Messenger of Allah says whosoever wipes away the tears of an orphan, will surely be rewarded with paradise. And whosoever adopts a child, I and him (The messenger) will be standing next to each other in Jannah (Sahih al-Bukhari).
My brothers and sisters, there are hundreds and thousands of kids around the world. They are parentless, they don't even know what it means to have a mother's warmth. They are just hoping that someday someone would come and extend a hand. Thus, we can search around even among our family members who left behind their kids. The beauty is that one can adopt even if they have children. So go and adopt a child and stop complaining about not being able to raise a child. Every child is a child, regardless of who bore the child. Sometimes your adopted children show mercy to you more than your own. Many people have adopted and the children became the coolness of their heart. So go and adopt a child.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
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