Visiting the Sick* [[---- Part Five ----

 *Visiting the Sick*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Visiting the ill today is a revival of the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet as it illustrates empathy among Muslims, a demonstration of love that is a required component of faith.. And so that, we will not be amongst those who will be queried by Allah (swt) on the day of judgement for ignoring the sick amongst us.

Evidence:

*‘O son of Adam, I was sick and you did not visit Me.’* He will say, ‘O my Lord, how could I visit You, when you are the Lord of the Worlds.’ Allah will say, ‘Did you not know that My servant so-and-so was sick and you did not visit him? Did you not know that if you had visited him, you would have found Me there?’ 📚(Saheeh Muslim)

Now,

Continuation of episode 1, 2, 3 & 4 - as promised.

*One should not sit too long with the sick person & Conversation with the sick - do’s and don’ts:*

While patients enjoy some company, it’s highly recommended that you make it short and sweet.

Evidence:

Once our Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, 'The best type of visit to a sick person is when the visitor gets up to leave without delay.' 📚[Bayhaqi]

Unless you are a very close friend, be a light guest; try not to stay for more than 20-30 minutes (or less), depending on how well they are.. Yes.. The sick person may pass through periods when he suffers pain because of his sickness, or he may do something that he would not like anyone to see, so sitting with him for too long will cause him embarrassment.

However,

It depends on the situation; the sick person may like some people to sit with him or her for a long time.. But don’t act uncomfortably if there are no chairs or if it’s too hot, for example, and try to minimize chatter if the person looks too tired to engage in conversation. And avoid bringing your children if they are too young or you will end up disturbing the sick person.

*Conversation with the sick - do’s and don’ts:*

Please don’t feed your curiosity and start off by asking, - “So, what’s wrong with you exactly? Who did this to you? Why would you allow her to put you in this situation? etc etc...”

Remember that,

You are there to get them out of the mood, not probe them for medical informations or reasons for been into the situations!.. Yes. What if they had a surgery that is embarrassing to discuss? Instead, ask about how they’re feeling and when they’re expecting to return home, for example.. Offer to babysit their children for a day if you can, or offer any other help they may need to reduce their burden.

But,

If they choose to reveal details to you, be a good listener. Give them advice, cheer them up, remind them of Allah’s mercy and how He tests His good servants to elevate their ranks.. This is not the time to remind them of death and hellfire or share with them depressing news!😃. Yes.. Choose your words wisely and carefully.

*Time for visiting & Reassuring The Sick and Giving Them Hope of a Long Life:*

These and more will come to you 🔜 in the next episode of this article in sha Allah

TO BE CONTINUED



سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك