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WHY DATING THE NON ISLAMIC WAY IS HARAAM

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul ahad, 10th day of Sha’abaan 1446AH, Sunday. 9th Feb. 2025). *_WHY DATING THE NON ISLAMIC WAY IS HARAAM (Forbidden/Unlawful) In Islam continues_*. BismilLah. 


Let's continue with our reminder from yesterday as to why dating the non Islamic way is haraam/Forbidden 🚫. 


Those dating normally speaks or express their love in a lustful and soft way that cause the two to fall into temptation. ALLAH Azzawajal even ordered the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wasallam) to tell his wives and the believing women to speak in an honourable way as in Qur'an 33:32. It contradicts dating and all that it holds.


Those dating usually shake/hold hands with each other which is the initial stage of intimacy and Islam prohibit it by the sayings of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) (It is better for one of you to be pierced by a steel pin in his head than to touch the hand of a woman who is not lawful to him). And Abu Hurayrah said [The temptation of the hands is fast striking]. The shaking hands are a strong weapon used by Satan to let us end in wrong.


Those dating normally spend the night together and execute the shameful act. Narrated by Abdallah Bun Jaabir, the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said (Behold, no person should spend the night with a woman, but only in the case he married to her or he is a mahram (relative). Most spend the night and fornicate where as the Quran warns us not to even come near to zina (QUR'AN 17:32). 


*_May ALLAH Azzawajal, protect us from any acts that will lead to any disobedience and keeps guiding us all_*. Aameen.

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