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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 46*
YOUR WIFE IS YOUR PLAYMATE
*22 THINGS YOU MUST DO TO YOUR WIFE*
1. Call her with sweet nicknames (the prophet use to call Ā'ishah "Ā'ish").
2.Play with her, any halal game at all (the prophet use to race with 'Ā'ishah) and Almighty Allāh loves it when a husband plays with his wife.
3. Treat her kindly and offer her everything that will soften her heart towards you (it's a warning from the prophet on his last sermon at Arafāt)
4. Buy her gifts sometimes even if is toffee (they love to be treated like a baby)
5. Never have intercourse with her without a "messenger" e.g. kisses and always make sure she is satisfied (Recommended by the prophet).
6. Help her in domestic activities e.g. Cooking, washing, tiding up the room, etc. anytime you are available (it's sunnah)
7. Honour her parents and buy them presents sometimes.
8. Appreciate the good things she has been doing for you and be thanking her for that always. Almighty Allāh says; "He who does not thank people does not thank me."
9. Let her know how much she means to you, how much you love her and how lucky you are to have her.
10. Be carrying her to bed sometimes like a baby.
11. Before criticising her, praise her first.
12. Make yourself attractive to her always by smelling good (both mouth and body, its Sunnah).
13. Chat with her sometimes when you are together.
14. Phone to tell her, "I miss U", "I love U" when you are at work.
15. Be doing things together with her, e.g. cooking, eating, bathing janabah, reciting the Glorious Qur'an, praying, etc.
16. Don't reveal her fault in the presence of others.
17. Teach her about the deen (Islam) what she don't know and encourage her on matters of the deen.
18. Avoid hitting, beating or harming her (it's not Islam)
19. Encourage her to be wearing Hijab (its compulsory), praying the five times salat at its fixed times and be fasting in the blessed month of Ramadān.
20. Thank Allāh for completing your Life.
21. Always remember her in your du'ās (prayers).
22. Be the path she will pass to JANNAH.
May Allāh (Sub-haanahu wata'aala) give all muslim husbands the understanding and patience they will need to take good care of their wives. Ameen
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*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 46*
YOUR WIFE IS YOUR PLAYMATE
*22 THINGS YOU MUST DO TO YOUR WIFE*
1. Call her with sweet nicknames (the prophet use to call Ā'ishah "Ā'ish").
2.Play with her, any halal game at all (the prophet use to race with 'Ā'ishah) and Almighty Allāh loves it when a husband plays with his wife.
3. Treat her kindly and offer her everything that will soften her heart towards you (it's a warning from the prophet on his last sermon at Arafāt)
4. Buy her gifts sometimes even if is toffee (they love to be treated like a baby)
5. Never have intercourse with her without a "messenger" e.g. kisses and always make sure she is satisfied (Recommended by the prophet).
6. Help her in domestic activities e.g. Cooking, washing, tiding up the room, etc. anytime you are available (it's sunnah)
7. Honour her parents and buy them presents sometimes.
8. Appreciate the good things she has been doing for you and be thanking her for that always. Almighty Allāh says; "He who does not thank people does not thank me."
9. Let her know how much she means to you, how much you love her and how lucky you are to have her.
10. Be carrying her to bed sometimes like a baby.
11. Before criticising her, praise her first.
12. Make yourself attractive to her always by smelling good (both mouth and body, its Sunnah).
13. Chat with her sometimes when you are together.
14. Phone to tell her, "I miss U", "I love U" when you are at work.
15. Be doing things together with her, e.g. cooking, eating, bathing janabah, reciting the Glorious Qur'an, praying, etc.
16. Don't reveal her fault in the presence of others.
17. Teach her about the deen (Islam) what she don't know and encourage her on matters of the deen.
18. Avoid hitting, beating or harming her (it's not Islam)
19. Encourage her to be wearing Hijab (its compulsory), praying the five times salat at its fixed times and be fasting in the blessed month of Ramadān.
20. Thank Allāh for completing your Life.
21. Always remember her in your du'ās (prayers).
22. Be the path she will pass to JANNAH.
May Allāh (Sub-haanahu wata'aala) give all muslim husbands the understanding and patience they will need to take good care of their wives. Ameen
(Copied)
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
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