Why our marriages today too not last like before.
Alhamdulillah, the reasons are five and we need to change them before we can get happy marriage and lasting marriage.
Firstly is the courtship and dating today where a man and woman has already had relationship, seen, touch and do everything before marriage. So the barakah of that marriage is not there.
Secondly, not made us per Quran and Sunnah. The marriage today as tend as a trend and every woman wants a luxurious marriage broadcasted on media and every where.
Even the wife is seen around with henna all her body on TikTok and how can this marriage survive?
Thirdly, influence of families or third party.
When in marriage, people controls the marriage, the marriage won't last because of pressure and control.
Fourthly, too much expectation, when we expect too much in the marriage forgetting marriage is a worship and there are trials in it, then will we fail to comply and stay in it when the trials comes.
Fifth, lack of fear of Allah among ourselves.
Everything in life, without fear of Allah and knowing the rulings of Allah in it, that thing will never be successful.
May Allah grants us pious families and protects our marriages. Aamin
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