*Discussing Sawdah*
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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Nana Saudah's Personal Characteristics given in our previous episode revealed to us that there was a sweet harmonious atmospherein the household of the Holy Prophet (PBUH).
Now,
This reminds me of two touching stories. One these stories was sister narrated to me years ago:
STORY No 1:
A sister narrated to me years ago:
"This happened to me (my self). Few years back my first husband {may his soul rest in peace} whom I got my first 3 kids with, once told me that,, "he wants to help a poor widow with 2 kids by marrying her as a second wife. I changed completely since that day with him. When he noticed that he could not longer see my face again, he called me and told that he has dropped/cancelled the second wife issue. And since that day,, I changed back to who I was".
"As Allah (swt) will show me small lesson in life, exactly 2 weeks after, he came back in the evening complaining of slight headache. I told him to lay down. It could be a stress. B4 two hours, I went to c how he was fairing. He was already dead. Yes. Dead leaving me (26years old) with 3 kids".
"Few months after, our landlord ejected us from his house just bcos we could not afford to pay. We moved into my brother's house".
"The trouble of my brother's wife became so unbearable that, I decided to re-marry again. Apart from that, am still 26. I need a man in my life. But who will marry me??? A man who is not yet married??? This is 90% not possible".
"Every men who came to seek for my hand in marriage used to be prevented by their wives at home".
To cut the long story Short,
"Another married man came again. I fell in love with him. But his wife at home became another obstacle. I cried day and night. I fasted during the day and pray at mid-night crying to Allah to change the mind of that woman".
"Few weeks later, the man came and told me that, his wife asked him to bring me. I asked him. Has she agree??? He said No. I started crying again. But finally i summoned my courage to go and c her. Reaching there, the wife came out and huged me crying telling me that she has agreed, not bcos she like it but bcos, she don't know what will happen to her tomorrow if she deny me marrying her husband".
"I cried again regrating how I denied someone this golden opportunity."
STORY No 2:
A working class friend of mine with 3 children advised me few years back not to help my husband with a peny in running the family. I asked her why she said this. She replied me that, if u help men in running the family responsibilities, they will gain STRENGTH to marry another woman.
To my surprise, few months after that conversation, she called me that her husband wants to marry second wife tomorrow. And I asked her the following questions::
Question: Have u started helping in the family responsibilities financially?
Answer: For where..!!!. God forbid.
Question: Has he gotten another better job?
Answer: For where..!!!. He was even demoted in his place of work last 3 months.
Question: Did u people quarrel?
Answer: Not even once for the past 4 months.
Question: Then how did he suddenly gather strength with which he want to use to marry second wife?
Answer: Leave the idiot😃.
Now,
It's important to note that........
TO BE CONTINUED
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك
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