Discussing Sawdah* [[----- Part 7-of-8 -----]]

 *Discussing Sawdah*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

In our previous episode, we have pointed out that the wives of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) were not only obedient BUT supportive in every aspect of life.

Today,

There is a general notion shared, mainly, by African women that *“My Husband’s money is our own, My Money is my own.”*

This is why,

If your African wife takes money from her own purse to take care of the family without adding it to your “debt” or taking it back “in a way.” You should be grateful to God 😃 for very few of them exists.

Did you remember the second story in our last episode? The STORY narrated by one sister about a friend who was not helping her husband financially because of fear of not granting him abilities to marry another wife.. In the end what happened? Even with her Stinginess, Allah (swt) have decreed that her husband will marry second wife. So, even with her attitude of not supporting him financially, he still marry 2nd wife.

My People!

Recently, i went to one private secondary school to administer a questionnaire to chemistry students. To my surprise, in a class of 34 students, Wallahi Tallahi 28 are female and only 6 male. I wept inside me considering the fact that, wherever you go today (market, hospitals, schools, streets) the population of female you see is X5 of the population of male.

I'm not saying this with an intention of motivating men to marry more than one wife. No!.. It is the reflection on the hadeeth:

*“None of you will have faith until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.”* 📚 Authentic Hadith

*In another narration, the Prophet (PBUH) said, “Until he loves for his neighbor what he loves for himself.”* 📚S‌ah‌i‌h‌ al-Bukha‌ri‌ 13, S‌ah‌i‌h‌ Muslim 45

Now,

*Women's Fear About Second Wife of a Thing:*

▪️My husband will not be able to love me again as he used to. Or he will not love us equally 50-50.. The Qur'an 📚Surah Nisa'a verse 129 should remove this worry from ur mind.

▪️I am going to loose my husband to another woman.

Did u still remember the story of SAUDAT and prophet Muhammad (PBUH)? Saudah relinquish her days for Aisha, bcos she's more interested in paradise than worldly gains.

Even if u noticed he is going to cheat on u, leave him to Allah. He will be resurrected paralysed on the day of judgment.. And this means that he is not entering jannah.

▪️The woman coming in will throw me out of the house.

If u sincerely asked Allah to give ur husband a good woman anytime he is ready to marry more, Allah (swt) will not turn ur DU'A down. And if u are strong in faith, Wallahi no charm will have a positive impact on u.

▪️We are going to be sharing monthly resources with the woman coming in.

Did u still remember the hadith: *"Love for others what u love for Urself"*.📚 Authentic Hadith

Either you yourself, ur daughters, sisters could be a victim of being single tomorrow

▪️I can not share inheritance with any woman after the death of my husband.. And who told u who will die last?

My People!

▪️Did we not feel for widows who lost their husbands at younger ages?

▪️Did we think about number of girls to boys given birth to everyday?

▪️Did we think about death rate between male and female? Men die more.

▪️Did we sometimes feel for women/ladies outside not yet married, and how they manage their sexual huge?

TO BE CONTINUED


سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك