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 *Family 3rd Party*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

A man or woman will observe 1 rakaat for Isha'i prayer, thinking that he or she have observed 4 rakaats😃. A man or woman will observe 6 rakaats for Magrib prayer, thinking that he or she have observed 3 rakaats😃. All these lost of concentration in swalah is mostly due to lack of peace and harmony in the family.

We do see people in the street speaking to themselves, turning their hands left right because there's no peace and harmony in their family.

Men and women who will use their leisure time to read Qur'an, recite alot Dhikr will have their minds preoccupied with bitterness, frustratrative and evil thought simply because there is a crisis in their marriages.

Now,

If all these enumerated above does happen everyday in our families, then, it has become mandatory on religious leaders to come up with reminders like this, at least time to time, because no one will enjoy worshipping Allah (swt) better than those whose family life is full of peace, love and harmony.

*Third Party & It's Influence in Our Marriages:*

Lots of marriages have been destroyed by the couples allowing Third Parties to influence their marriages. Third Parties must not be allowed to play any pivotal roles in your marriage.

Who's a third party?

According to experts, a third party is a person or group besides the couple, involved in a situation, especially a dispute. He or she can be either of the couples’ family members, friends, co-workers or neighbours. In most cases, they pose as good people who want to better your marriage but at the end of it they will destroy your marriage. We should not give room to them. Yes. Even your parents could sometimes out of good wisdom add salt to your injury.

My People!

It is no longer news that there is no challenge-free relationship and so issues will always come up in every relationship, it will be building castle in the air to expect a challenge-free marriage.

And,

No one can dispute the fact that "Economy" is bitting hard on everyone (worldwide), leading to countless marriages broken down over insignificant issues, and over Millions of marriages already on the verge of breakage.

Fortunately today,

I heard someone reciting verses from the glorious Qur'an, and having poundered on the meaning of the verses, we felt we should put up a reminder to address certain issues which may benefit Muslim Ummah worldwide - In Shaa Allah. These are the verses:

وَٱلَّٰتِى تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَٱهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِى ٱلْمَضَاجِعِ وَٱضْرِبُوهُنَّۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًاۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا

"But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance -  [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand". 📚An-Nisa' 4:34

وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ شِقَاقَ بَيْنِهِمَا فَٱبْعَثُوا۟ حَكَمًا مِّنْ أَهْلِهِۦ وَحَكَمًا مِّنْ أَهْلِهَآ إِن يُرِيدَآ إِصْلَٰحًا يُوَفِّقِ ٱللَّهُ بَيْنَهُمَآۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا خَبِيرًا

"And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people. If they both desire reconciliation, Allah will cause it between them. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Acquainted [with all things]". 📚An-Nisa' 4:35

Now,

The issue of whether couples should allow third parties to...

To be continued