Ummu Salamah* [[ Part 2-of-2 ]]

 *Ummu Salamah*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Umm Salamah (r.a.) and her first husband both were among the first persons to accept Islam. Only Abu Bakr and a few others, who could be counted on the fingers of one hand, became Muslims before them.

Abu Salamah (the first husband of Ummm Salamah), on his sick bed prayed and asked Allah to give his family a protector and provider like him. And he also asked the Prophet Muhammad to give Umm Salamah a husband who would give her neither sorrow nor hardship.

After his death, the Prophet (pbuh) proposed and married her.

*Lessons:*

Huge profit is not about who FIRST enter the market.

Several brothers knocked on your door to seeking for your hands in marriage, then, disappeared along the line without reasons shouldn't destabilize your mood in any way because they are not the best for you. Yes. The best ones are on the way soon. Just increase your hopes in Allah (swt), then, continue making Du'a to Allah to compensate you with the best of the best in an unquantifiable ways.

You approach many sisters with the intention of marriage, but some duped you, some deceived you, some just disappeared along the line without valid reasons. This shouldn't destabilize your mood in any way because they are not the best for you. Yes. It's not because you are not rich. No! The best ones are on the way soon. Just increase your hopes in Allah (swt), then, continue making Du'a to Allah to compensate you with the best of the best in an unquantifiable ways.

Your husband or wife suddenly changed after few years of marriage, and eventually, crisis sat down in your marriage which eventually ended up in divorce. This is Allah's plan about your life. This doesn't mean that you are bad in any way. In fact, 90% of people who experienced divorce in their life are only a victim of circumstances. Remember that it's *ONLY Nana Aʾishah* out the remaining wives of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) who was not a divorced or a widow. So, your situations of being divorced ones or more shouldn't destabilize your mood in any way because there's nothing you can do to changing Allah's plan about your life.

Even if yours case is the death of your husband, at least, Ummu Salamah's case should be a good example for you. Know that it's Allah's plan about your life. Yes. The best of the best are on the way soon.

Somebody may say - *"the man or woman I'm marrying now is not as good to me as my ex.. Wallahi, Allah (swt) alone knows the best. Yes. It's possible that Allah (swt) want you to gain very plenty rewards of adapting patiently to the new changes in your life and gain Free-Lisence to entering Paradise.

My People!

Countless disappointment or delays are not due to spiritual attacks or evil plots of your enemies. No!. Even though it's apparently clear that your issues are spiritual-related, trust Allah (swt) that HE is using that to catapult you to the promise land where you will not have anything to say other than Alhamdulillah in the end.

Remember,

Prophet Yusuf (a.s.) wouldn't have became what Allah (swt) prepared for him (that's - becoming the king of Egypt) if his blood brothers (who were all prophet of Allah) did not jealously plot evils on him. Yes. Prophet Yusuf actually suffered, but in the end, he said Alhamdulillah!