Someone asked me how do you avoid the fitnah of woman, it's very difficult to lower your gaze especially in this type of generation?

*Someone asked me how do you avoid the fitnah of woman, it's very difficult to lower your gaze especially in this type of generation?*

Firstly, women are not fitnah this is a derogatory term used against women. It is very offensive term to describe woman in society. If women were fitnah in society, our Nabi صلى الله عليه وسلم would not have said Jannah lies underneath the feet of your mother. Woman is one of the means that she brings her family and her husband entry into paradise. Some people claim woman are a cause of tempatation, because if weren't for Hawa alayha salam to tempt her husband to eat from the tree, Adam alayhi salam would not have disobeyed Allah in the first place. This is not case here because who tempted Hawa alayha salam to eat from the tree, it was iblees. So when a man goes outside and he sees a woman who appeals to him or he finds her attractive..who lures this in the heart of a man. It is none other than the shayateen. Some men use another excuse and say, it is the woman's fault for not wearing the correct Hijab but this isn't the case because the shaytaan will still whisper in the heart of some men. The real cause of fitnah between man and woman is the shayateen.

How to avoid this?

Simply stop looking at unlawful things, lower your gaze from looking at unlawful things and stay away from looking at haram and filth. Allah will fill your eyes with joys and purity of the heart. If you disobey Allah from looking at unlawful things. Allah will fill your eyes with unease in such a sense you feel that woman are cause of your tempatation. Research proves this..How many men watch porngraphy and it changes the whole mentality of the mind of a man and they start to look at a woman from a different perspective. Sad Reality!