WOMEN ARE OUR SHIELDS FROM THE HELL FIRE. DON'T MAKE THEM SAD.
In life what many people especially, we the men don't and do not feel it, but few of us is the heart of women and how delicate a woman is. In life there are 4 types of women every man must handle with care, love and respect. Any mishandling of any of these four types of women can earn you ALLAH's wrath or ALLAH's anger.
These types of women are:-
1. Our mothers.
2. Our daughters.
3. Our wives.
4. Our sisters.
1. No body can love you More than your mother. And no one after ALLAH and the Rasulullah's (SAW) disobedience can ruin your life in this Duniya and the hereafter than your mother. Mothers are so precious and important that, Rasulullah (SAW) even asked some companions to stay with their mothers instead of going for Jihad in the name of ALLAH. Mothers are so important that, ALLAH has put our Jannat under their feet. And mothers are so important that, Islam says, if you have to be kind to anyone, your mother must be giving and treated three third of any kindness before even your father. ALLAH doesn't want mother's to be sad. He ALLAH himself avoid sadden women, when in the case of Prophet Musah(Moses pbuh) ALLAH says:
ﻭَﺃَﻭْﺣَﻴْﻨَﺎٓ ﺇِﻟَﻰٰٓ ﺃُﻡِّ ﻣُﻮﺳَﻰٰٓ ﺃَﻥْ ﺃَﺭْﺿِﻌِﻴﻪِ ۖ ﻓَﺈِﺫَﺍ ﺧِﻔْﺖِ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻓَﺄَﻟْﻘِﻴﻪِ ﻓِﻰ ﭐﻟْﻴَﻢِّ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺨَﺎﻓِﻰ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺤْﺰَﻧِﻰٓ ۖ ﺇِﻧَّﺎ ﺭَﺍٓﺩُّﻭﻩُ ﺇِﻟَﻴْﻚِ ﻭَﺟَﺎﻋِﻠُﻮﻩُ ﻣِﻦَ ﭐﻟْﻤُﺮْﺳَﻠِﻴﻦَ ﴿٧ ﴾
And We inspired to the mother of Moses, "Suckle him; but when you fear for him, cast him into the river and do not fear and do not grieve. Indeed, We will return him to you and will make him [one] of the messengers."(Quran 88:7)
You see ALLAH didn't want the mother of Moses to be sad, so he promised her that, her child will come back to her. And also HE ALLAH will make him Strong and pious Prophet.
So what happened next? Read the following.
ﻓَﺮَﺩَﺩْﻧَـٰﻪُ ﺇِﻟَﻰٰٓ ﺃُﻣِّﻪِۦ ﻛَﻰْ ﺗَﻘَﺮَّ ﻋَﻴْﻨُﻬَﺎ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺤْﺰَﻥَ ﻭَﻟِﺘَﻌْﻠَﻢَ ﺃَﻥَّ ﻭَﻋْﺪَ ﭐﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺣَﻖٌّۭ ﻭَﻟَـٰﻜِﻦَّ ﺃَﻛْﺜَﺮَﻫُﻢْ ﻟَﺎ ﻳَﻌْﻠَﻤُﻮﻥَ ﴿١٣ ﴾
So We restored him to his mother that she might be content and not grieve and that she would know that the promise of Allah is true. But most of the people do not know. (Quran 88:13)
ALLAHU AKBAR.
When ALLAH himself avoided saddening our mothers why do we make them sad? It's sinful to that.
2. Daughters are the next type of women because of whom some parents will enter paradise or be punished in the Hell fire some how based on how we treat them. Do not under estimate the rights of your daughters on you. Prophet Muhammad (saw) said.
ﻋﻦ ﻋُﻘْﺒَﺔَ ﺑْﻦَ ﻋَﺎﻣِﺮٍ ﻳَﻘُﻮﻝُ ﺳَﻤِﻌْﺖُ ﺭَﺳُﻮﻝَ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺻَﻠَّﻰ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻭَﺳَﻠَّﻢَ ﻳَﻘُﻮﻝُ : )) ﻣَﻦْ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻟَﻪُ ﺛَﻼﺙُ ﺑَﻨَﺎﺕٍ ﻓَﺼَﺒَﺮَ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻬِﻦَّ ﻭَﺃَﻃْﻌَﻤَﻬُﻦَّ ﻭَﺳَﻘَﺎﻫُﻦَّ ﻭَﻛَﺴَﺎﻫُﻦَّ ﻣِﻦْ ﺟِﺪَﺗِﻪِ ﻛُﻦَّ ﻟَﻪُ ﺣِﺠَﺎﺑًﺎ ﻣِﻦْ ﺍﻟﻨَّﺎﺭِ ﻳَﻮْﻡَ ﺍﻟْﻘِﻴَﺎﻣَﺔِ ((
Whosoever ALLAH blesses with 3 female daughters and he took good care of them, protected them and offer them for marriage, they will shield him from the Hell fire. In sha ALLAH.
3. Wives Believe it or not. Many men are going to be punished severely because of the injustices they meted on their wives in this Duniya. Women are not only made to be married, have sex with them and burden them with pregnancies. And later dump them like unwanted objects the way some men do. The Holy Quran and Hadith have
talked a lot about our wives and how we must live with them. And when you dislike her for a reason, separate with her with dignity, while recognizing the good relationships between you in the past. When Prophet was lying on his sick bed. He advised us to fear ALLAH in our wives and the slaves in our hands.
4. Sisters are just like daughters to us. If you have a sister, senior or junior please, be careful with your words with her. If you love her, take good care of her and support her until marriage, she can also save you from the Hell fire tomorrow. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said
ﻋﻦ ﻋﺎﺋﺸﺔ ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻨﻬﺎ ﻗﺎﻝ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ : )) ﻟﻴﺲ ﺃﺣﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻣﺘﻲ ﻳﻌﻮﻝ ﺛﻼﺙ ﺑﻨﺎﺕ ﺃﻭ ﺛﻼﺙ ﺃﺧﻮﺍﺕ ﻓﻴﺤﺴﻦ ﺇﻟﻴﻬﻦ ﺇﻻ ﻛﻦ ﻟﻪ ﺳﺘﺮًﺍ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺭ (( [6 ] .
No one among my Ummat or people. Who will take good care of three daughters or three sisters, and be good and kind to them, unless they become a Shield for him against the Hell fire.
You see these are some virtues of women, that we always look down on. There is no where in the Qur'an or Hadith specifically, telling us that, our fathers or male children can save us from the Hell Fire but women. Only in the case of a wife. A man owns and wife disobeying her husband will not taste the scent of Jannat. But our mothers,daughters and sisters have more rights on us than anyone.
If you want to be loved by ALLAH, respect the feelings of your mother and don't be disobedient to her. Do not cheat your wife by denying her, her rights. Do not abandon your daughters to be flirting around to fend for themselves. Do not get too angry on your daughters, handle them with care and love.
And last but not the least. Do not ever and ever make mockery of your sisters. They are part of you and you are part of them. They can inherit you in the case you don't have children, just like your mother and father will inherit you.
And lastly, we must all know that, women love us more than Anyone. They are the most hit hard and grieved ones for us when we are dead or in troubles. I know ladies who take their husbands properties to support their brothers or families. It's not a crime if that won't cause us any loses to us, we the husbands. Most Women need is just some little flower and care.
Be a good and gentleman, love and respect your mother, love your daughters, wives and sisters. They can save you from the Hell Fire tomorrow.
I love and respect my mother. I love my wife (even though i don't marry, i will love her when i marry her), I respect my sisters. I will be love my daughter in sha Allah. WHAT ABOUT YOU?
In life what many people especially, we the men don't and do not feel it, but few of us is the heart of women and how delicate a woman is. In life there are 4 types of women every man must handle with care, love and respect. Any mishandling of any of these four types of women can earn you ALLAH's wrath or ALLAH's anger.
These types of women are:-
1. Our mothers.
2. Our daughters.
3. Our wives.
4. Our sisters.
1. No body can love you More than your mother. And no one after ALLAH and the Rasulullah's (SAW) disobedience can ruin your life in this Duniya and the hereafter than your mother. Mothers are so precious and important that, Rasulullah (SAW) even asked some companions to stay with their mothers instead of going for Jihad in the name of ALLAH. Mothers are so important that, ALLAH has put our Jannat under their feet. And mothers are so important that, Islam says, if you have to be kind to anyone, your mother must be giving and treated three third of any kindness before even your father. ALLAH doesn't want mother's to be sad. He ALLAH himself avoid sadden women, when in the case of Prophet Musah(Moses pbuh) ALLAH says:
ﻭَﺃَﻭْﺣَﻴْﻨَﺎٓ ﺇِﻟَﻰٰٓ ﺃُﻡِّ ﻣُﻮﺳَﻰٰٓ ﺃَﻥْ ﺃَﺭْﺿِﻌِﻴﻪِ ۖ ﻓَﺈِﺫَﺍ ﺧِﻔْﺖِ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻓَﺄَﻟْﻘِﻴﻪِ ﻓِﻰ ﭐﻟْﻴَﻢِّ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺨَﺎﻓِﻰ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺤْﺰَﻧِﻰٓ ۖ ﺇِﻧَّﺎ ﺭَﺍٓﺩُّﻭﻩُ ﺇِﻟَﻴْﻚِ ﻭَﺟَﺎﻋِﻠُﻮﻩُ ﻣِﻦَ ﭐﻟْﻤُﺮْﺳَﻠِﻴﻦَ ﴿٧ ﴾
And We inspired to the mother of Moses, "Suckle him; but when you fear for him, cast him into the river and do not fear and do not grieve. Indeed, We will return him to you and will make him [one] of the messengers."(Quran 88:7)
You see ALLAH didn't want the mother of Moses to be sad, so he promised her that, her child will come back to her. And also HE ALLAH will make him Strong and pious Prophet.
So what happened next? Read the following.
ﻓَﺮَﺩَﺩْﻧَـٰﻪُ ﺇِﻟَﻰٰٓ ﺃُﻣِّﻪِۦ ﻛَﻰْ ﺗَﻘَﺮَّ ﻋَﻴْﻨُﻬَﺎ ﻭَﻟَﺎ ﺗَﺤْﺰَﻥَ ﻭَﻟِﺘَﻌْﻠَﻢَ ﺃَﻥَّ ﻭَﻋْﺪَ ﭐﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺣَﻖٌّۭ ﻭَﻟَـٰﻜِﻦَّ ﺃَﻛْﺜَﺮَﻫُﻢْ ﻟَﺎ ﻳَﻌْﻠَﻤُﻮﻥَ ﴿١٣ ﴾
So We restored him to his mother that she might be content and not grieve and that she would know that the promise of Allah is true. But most of the people do not know. (Quran 88:13)
ALLAHU AKBAR.
When ALLAH himself avoided saddening our mothers why do we make them sad? It's sinful to that.
2. Daughters are the next type of women because of whom some parents will enter paradise or be punished in the Hell fire some how based on how we treat them. Do not under estimate the rights of your daughters on you. Prophet Muhammad (saw) said.
ﻋﻦ ﻋُﻘْﺒَﺔَ ﺑْﻦَ ﻋَﺎﻣِﺮٍ ﻳَﻘُﻮﻝُ ﺳَﻤِﻌْﺖُ ﺭَﺳُﻮﻝَ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪِ ﺻَﻠَّﻰ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻭَﺳَﻠَّﻢَ ﻳَﻘُﻮﻝُ : )) ﻣَﻦْ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻟَﻪُ ﺛَﻼﺙُ ﺑَﻨَﺎﺕٍ ﻓَﺼَﺒَﺮَ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻬِﻦَّ ﻭَﺃَﻃْﻌَﻤَﻬُﻦَّ ﻭَﺳَﻘَﺎﻫُﻦَّ ﻭَﻛَﺴَﺎﻫُﻦَّ ﻣِﻦْ ﺟِﺪَﺗِﻪِ ﻛُﻦَّ ﻟَﻪُ ﺣِﺠَﺎﺑًﺎ ﻣِﻦْ ﺍﻟﻨَّﺎﺭِ ﻳَﻮْﻡَ ﺍﻟْﻘِﻴَﺎﻣَﺔِ ((
Whosoever ALLAH blesses with 3 female daughters and he took good care of them, protected them and offer them for marriage, they will shield him from the Hell fire. In sha ALLAH.
3. Wives Believe it or not. Many men are going to be punished severely because of the injustices they meted on their wives in this Duniya. Women are not only made to be married, have sex with them and burden them with pregnancies. And later dump them like unwanted objects the way some men do. The Holy Quran and Hadith have
talked a lot about our wives and how we must live with them. And when you dislike her for a reason, separate with her with dignity, while recognizing the good relationships between you in the past. When Prophet was lying on his sick bed. He advised us to fear ALLAH in our wives and the slaves in our hands.
4. Sisters are just like daughters to us. If you have a sister, senior or junior please, be careful with your words with her. If you love her, take good care of her and support her until marriage, she can also save you from the Hell fire tomorrow. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said
ﻋﻦ ﻋﺎﺋﺸﺔ ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻨﻬﺎ ﻗﺎﻝ ﺭﺳﻮﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ : )) ﻟﻴﺲ ﺃﺣﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻣﺘﻲ ﻳﻌﻮﻝ ﺛﻼﺙ ﺑﻨﺎﺕ ﺃﻭ ﺛﻼﺙ ﺃﺧﻮﺍﺕ ﻓﻴﺤﺴﻦ ﺇﻟﻴﻬﻦ ﺇﻻ ﻛﻦ ﻟﻪ ﺳﺘﺮًﺍ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺭ (( [6 ] .
No one among my Ummat or people. Who will take good care of three daughters or three sisters, and be good and kind to them, unless they become a Shield for him against the Hell fire.
You see these are some virtues of women, that we always look down on. There is no where in the Qur'an or Hadith specifically, telling us that, our fathers or male children can save us from the Hell Fire but women. Only in the case of a wife. A man owns and wife disobeying her husband will not taste the scent of Jannat. But our mothers,daughters and sisters have more rights on us than anyone.
If you want to be loved by ALLAH, respect the feelings of your mother and don't be disobedient to her. Do not cheat your wife by denying her, her rights. Do not abandon your daughters to be flirting around to fend for themselves. Do not get too angry on your daughters, handle them with care and love.
And last but not the least. Do not ever and ever make mockery of your sisters. They are part of you and you are part of them. They can inherit you in the case you don't have children, just like your mother and father will inherit you.
And lastly, we must all know that, women love us more than Anyone. They are the most hit hard and grieved ones for us when we are dead or in troubles. I know ladies who take their husbands properties to support their brothers or families. It's not a crime if that won't cause us any loses to us, we the husbands. Most Women need is just some little flower and care.
Be a good and gentleman, love and respect your mother, love your daughters, wives and sisters. They can save you from the Hell Fire tomorrow.
I love and respect my mother. I love my wife (even though i don't marry, i will love her when i marry her), I respect my sisters. I will be love my daughter in sha Allah. WHAT ABOUT YOU?
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