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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 4*
*PUTTING DIVORCE INTO WRITING*
When Allah Ta'alah says something or instructs us to do something, it is because it is good for us. Take, for instance, the issue of writing divorce on paper. It is encouraged to do so, because when it is not written, later the couple can come back and deny the divorce, therefore it creates confusion.
So when divorce is initiated, make sure it is written, so that in the end, one of the couples will not bring something else. Some men are very dramatic, they divorce without thinking about the consequences. Later, they realised their rush or mistake, so they want to revoke it. It is, of course, revokable, but revoked it before it is too late. So when it is late, they give themselves fatwa that they can have sex no problem. No! that is Haram. When you are divorced she is not yours and you are not hers. Allah will treat you like adulterers.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 4*
*PUTTING DIVORCE INTO WRITING*
When Allah Ta'alah says something or instructs us to do something, it is because it is good for us. Take, for instance, the issue of writing divorce on paper. It is encouraged to do so, because when it is not written, later the couple can come back and deny the divorce, therefore it creates confusion.
So when divorce is initiated, make sure it is written, so that in the end, one of the couples will not bring something else. Some men are very dramatic, they divorce without thinking about the consequences. Later, they realised their rush or mistake, so they want to revoke it. It is, of course, revokable, but revoked it before it is too late. So when it is late, they give themselves fatwa that they can have sex no problem. No! that is Haram. When you are divorced she is not yours and you are not hers. Allah will treat you like adulterers.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
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