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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 3*
*ARE YOU MANLY ENOUGH?*
It is sad to say that some men are really unworthy to be called men, because they are not men. They are babies or kids. When they have any issue with their spouse, or they want to make a decision, or they want to buy something for their spouse. They first go home and inform their mother about it. "Mother, My wife did this, my wife did that. Mother, I want to pay for my wife's school fees". Then if the mother is the jealous type, she jumped in and stopped it. For she jumped in and ask him to divorce her. As if the wife is a baby doll. Come on!
Today, parents have taken part in divorce just because some men are not manly enough to control their family. A mother can instruct a son to divorce a wife just because she does not like her. This is not fair, will you want that for your daughter or sister? Some even allow family members to control them and their wives, some even gang up and beat the wife. This is not fair, this is injustice. If you cannot make decisions for your wife why did you think you deserve a wife? If every small issue you have to call her parents and report, what message are you trying to send? How can she ever respect you? How can she believe in you when you don't believe in yourself? Brother, when you report your spouse to someone, they always keep the grudge, but you, you forget instantly.
In life, as a man, you need to take charge, you should separate your marriage affairs with outside affairs. Your mother and wife have their places, each one of them has her dominion. When you report, you are creating a problem. Learn to handle your problems among yourselves. I am not saying a family should not ever get involved in marriage affairs, NO!, All I am saying is that everything has a limit. They should be involved when it becomes extremely necessary. Men, please grow up. Think before you act. That's what men do.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 3*
*ARE YOU MANLY ENOUGH?*
It is sad to say that some men are really unworthy to be called men, because they are not men. They are babies or kids. When they have any issue with their spouse, or they want to make a decision, or they want to buy something for their spouse. They first go home and inform their mother about it. "Mother, My wife did this, my wife did that. Mother, I want to pay for my wife's school fees". Then if the mother is the jealous type, she jumped in and stopped it. For she jumped in and ask him to divorce her. As if the wife is a baby doll. Come on!
Today, parents have taken part in divorce just because some men are not manly enough to control their family. A mother can instruct a son to divorce a wife just because she does not like her. This is not fair, will you want that for your daughter or sister? Some even allow family members to control them and their wives, some even gang up and beat the wife. This is not fair, this is injustice. If you cannot make decisions for your wife why did you think you deserve a wife? If every small issue you have to call her parents and report, what message are you trying to send? How can she ever respect you? How can she believe in you when you don't believe in yourself? Brother, when you report your spouse to someone, they always keep the grudge, but you, you forget instantly.
In life, as a man, you need to take charge, you should separate your marriage affairs with outside affairs. Your mother and wife have their places, each one of them has her dominion. When you report, you are creating a problem. Learn to handle your problems among yourselves. I am not saying a family should not ever get involved in marriage affairs, NO!, All I am saying is that everything has a limit. They should be involved when it becomes extremely necessary. Men, please grow up. Think before you act. That's what men do.
*{To be continued In-sha-Allāh (If Allāh Wills)...}*
*"And keep reminding, because reminding benefits the believers."* (Qur-ān 51:55)
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