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 *Discussing Sawdah* [[----- Part 5-of-8 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Nana Saudah (r.a.) was of a very simple and pious womt. Her faith was unquestioning, so much so that whenever she heard something pious or beneficial, even once, she would adopt the practice resolutely. Her simplicity was an extremely venerable and especially admirable aspect of her character. Rather than comment on any instruction imparted by the Holy Prophet PBUH), or delay carrying it out, she would do her utmost to instantaneously act upon it, in accordance with her understanding. *Lessons:* Wife Total Obedience To Her Husband Is An Act of Worship What every Muslimah has to do when she learns the ruling of Islam is to submit to it and believe in it even if she does not know the wisdom behind it. 📚[Surah al-Ahzaab - chapter 33 verse 36] Also, We should take note of the following points: 1 – The woman will be rewarded by Allah (swt) for her obedience to her husband. 2 – This obe

 The importance of showing mercy to one another.  Alhamdulillah, Allah is merciful to us by giving us air, water, food and health even those they are among mankind who insults Allah and denies him yet he provides for them. As reported in hadith, Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah said: "Allah, the Mighty and Sublinm, says: 'The son of Adam denied Me and he had no right to do so and the son of Adam reviled Me and he had no right to do so. As for his denying Me, It is his saying that I will not resurrect him as I created him in the beginning, but resurrecting him is not more difficult for Me than creating him in the first place. And as for his reviling Me, it is his saying that Allah has taken a son, but I am Allah, the One, the Self-Sufficient Master, I beget not nor was I begotten, and there is none co-equal or comparable unto Me."' Sunan an-Nasa'i 2078. So the son of Adam insults Allah by claiming he has a son while he does not deserve to say so. But out hi

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm As-Sabt, 27th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Saturday, 31st August 2024). *_OBEDIENCE TO ALLAH SUPERSEDE ANY CREATION_*. BismilLah.  The Messenger to Mankind Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam said in an authentic hadith that “there is no obedience to the creation in disobedience to The Creator (ALLAH). This short hadith basically means The right of The Creator takes precedence over the rights of the creation. So when anyone from the creation enjoins you to commit any act of disobedience, then obedience to them in that specific matter is actually disobedience to ALLAH, whereas disobedience to them in that specific matter is obedience to ALLAH. ALLAH (subhanahu wa ta’aala) says: …Help you one another in Al-Birr and At-Taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety); but do not help one another in sin and transgression. Quran 5:2. The right of the parents upon their children is so great that ALLAH often mentions obedience to parents immediately after worshipping AL

 The story continues of the boy and the king.  So as narrated in the hadith,  He said, 'Allah has saved me from them,' and he said to the king: 'You cannot kill me until you do what I command you to do.' The king asked, 'What is that?' He said, 'Gather all people in one place and tie me up to the trunk of a tree, then take an arrow from my quiver and say: With the Name of Allah, the Rubb of the boy; then shoot me. If you do that you will be able to kill me.' 'The king called the people in an open field and tied the young boy to the trunk of a tree. He took out an arrow from his quiver, fixed in the bow and said, 'With the Name of Allah, the Rubb of the young boy,' he then shot the arrow and it hit the boy's temple. The young boy placed his hand upon the temple where the arrow had hit him and died. The people then said: 'We believe in the Rubb of this young boy.' The king was told: 'Do you see what you were afraid of, by Allah

 The beauty of eeman.  Lets reflect upon this hadith,  Suhaib reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) thus said: There lived a king before you and he had a (court) magician. As he (the magician) grew old, he said to the king: I have grown old, send some young boy to me so that I should teach him magic. He (the king sent to him a young man so that he should train him (in magic). And on his way (to the magician) he (the young man) found a monk sitting there. He (the young man) listened to his (the monk's) talk and was impressed by it. It became his habit that on his way to the magician he met the monk and set there and he came to the magician (late). He (the magician) beat him because of delay. He made a complaint of that to the monk and he said to him: When you feel afraid of the magician, say: Members of my family had detained me. And when you feel afraid of your family you should say: The magician had detained me. It so happened that there came a huge beast (of prey) and it blocke

*Discussing Sawdah* [[----- Part 4-of-8 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Amongst the wives of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), Nana Saudah did not carry last position in night prayer (that's - "Tahajjud"). Yes. Saudah led a simple and pious life. She was punctual in her blessings, both obligatory and voluntary. Once the Prophet (saw) woke up to offer Tahajud and she got up to pray behind him. Later, she related to him that she was in ruku for so long that she feared her nose would bleed out from the posture and held onto it. The Holy Prophet was surprised and extremely pleased to hear her devotion. *Lessons:* Don't be like a day old baby by using ALL the hours of the night sleeping everyday - without waking up for Tahajjud The reality is, Any one you see waking up EVERYDAY for Tahajjud are not pushed to doing so because they are having sleepless nights 😃. No!.. They also enjoy sleeping but choose to press down their desires for sleeping in

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul Jumuat, 26th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Friday, 30th August 2024). *_THE PURE/SPIRITUAL  ISLAMIC BATH_*. BismilLah.  AlhamdulilLah, for guiding and blessing us to be part of this blessed day of the week. Let's remind each other about how to prepare ourselves spiritually before going to the masjid. This is the summary of how the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) used to perform the ghusul base on various authentic narrations: First, intend by heart to perform ghusul Wash your private parts properly so that you don't need to touch them during the ghusul. Start your ghusul in the name of the creator by saying (Bismillah) silently but audible to your hearing. Perform wudhu as normal for salaat. Pour water over the head with a minimum of 3 both hands full of water or with a shower, massaging the hair to allow the water to reach its roots. Pour water liberally over the entire body, starting with the right side of your body towards the left, ensuring tha

 The permissible of a muslim man to marry from the Ahlul Kitaab( Jew or  christian). Allah says,  Al-Ma'idah 5:5 This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture before you, when you have given them their due compensation,[1] desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers. So this ayah tells us the slaughtering of the christian and jew is halal for a muslim to eat even though he did not mention the name of Allah, one can eat his slaughter.  Because of the hadith,  Narrated `Aisha: A group of people said to the Prophet, "Some people bring us meat and we do not know whether they have mentioned Allah's Nam

 The first message of islam to call people to.  Alhamdulillah, the first knowledge of Islam to call a person to is the message of Tawheed.  The message of all messengers which Allah sent them to.  Allah is one and only without a beginning or end.  Allah says in Quran,  An-Nahl 16:36 And We certainly sent into every nation a messenger, [saying], "Worship Allāh and avoid ṭāghūt."[1] And among them were those whom Allāh guided, and among them were those upon whom error was [deservedly] decreed. So proceed [i.e., travel] through the earth and observe how was the end of the deniers. The taghut here scholars say it is shirk.  The message of tawheed is the purpose why all messengers were sent and 3/4 of the Quran talks of oneness of Allah and to worship him alone.  Allah s.w.t before creation gathered all the soul and made them to bear witness he is the lord. Allah says,  Al-A'raf 7:172 And [mention] when your Lord took from the children of Adam - from their loins - their descen

 Question asked why in islam, one is forbidden a male to wear a garment that is below his ankle?  Alhamdulillah, wearing a cloak or trouser which is below the ankle is seen as a form of kibr(arrogancy). During the jahiliyyah, the Arabs used to wear garment that is below their ankle as a form of kibr and pride.  And prideness is a character of Allah.  Allah says in Quran,  Al-Jathiyah 45:37 وَلَهُ ٱلْكِبْرِيَآءُ فِى ٱلسَّمَٰوَٰتِ وَٱلْأَرْضِۖ وَهُوَ ٱلْعَزِيزُ ٱلْحَكِيمُ  And to Him belongs [all] grandeur within the heavens and the earth, and He is the Exalted in Might, the Wise. So kibr is a character of Allah. And it is reported in an hadith of a man who was swallowed by the earth for wearing garment that is below his ankle due to pride. Narrated Ibn `Umar: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "While a man was walking, dragging his dress with pride, he was caused to be swallowedby the earth and will go on sinking in it till the Day of Resurrection." Sahih al-Bukhari 3485. Narrated Abu Hur

 The reality of this dunya.  Allah says in Quran,  Al-Hadid 57:20 Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children - like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allāh and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion. Just lets look at how Allah described the dunya like a seed one plant in the soil and it grows into seedlings and continue to grow until it becomes a plant and bear fruits so sweet and attractive  It continues until it turns old and the leaves turns yellow and stand to fall down again and later new leaves form and fruit again and falls and continue like that  This is the dunya, it has no permanent enjoyment but allusions and delusion we are living until death comes

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Al-Khamis, 25th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Thursday, 29th August 2024). *_LET'S BE MUSLIMS BY ACTION ACCORDING TO THE QUR'AN AND SUNNAH_*. BismilLah.  Please note that "Every human is a slave or servant. You're either a servant of your desires or a servant of ALLAH. You either live life by your rules or the rules of ALLAH. No any other choice.  Sheikh Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyah said O' son of Aadam! Sell this World for the hereafter and you will win both, sell the hereafter for this world & you will lose both. Meaning if you stick to obedience to the CREATOR ALLAH you will benefit from this world and the hereafter but if you abandon ALLAH'S rules and follow as you wish, you looses both.  Islam is not a buffet where you pick and choose what suits you. Don't obey your desires. Obey ALLAH. "Imprisoned is he, whose heart is imprisoned from ALLAH. Captured is he, who is captured by his or her desires."  Sheikh Fudayl Ibn Iyad

 *Discussing Sawdah* [[----- Part 3-of-8 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Relationship with wives of the Holy Prophet - Due to Saudah's humble nature and spirited disposition, she soon developed a strong bond with the daughters and wives of the Holy Prophet (PBUH). She was very close to Aisha, Hafsah and Safiyah. The Holy Prophet cherished her buoyant nature and was often amused by her anecdotes. *Lessons:* Treating every member of the family nicely & causing NO HARM to your co-wife or stepchildren Now, If Nana Aisha (r.a.) will say about Saudah - *“I have never wished that I was like any other woman except for Saudah. I would like to have her simple and unpretentious ways and I wish I could be like her and that I could have a heart as pure and clean as hers and her simple ways.”* 📚(Nana Aisha) Then, Women who maltreat their stepchildren or co-wife with ill behavior and those women who go as far as using diabolical means to cause ANY SORT of har

 *Discussing Sawdah* [[----- Part 2-of-8 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Nana Sawdah (r.a.) was not only generous by giving charity, but when it came to other people’s emotional needs. Sawdah, being attuned to others’ needs, gave up her days with the Prophet (PBUH) to Aisha (ra). Nana Aisha (r.a.) said about Saudah, *“never did I find any woman more loving to me than Sawda bint Zam’a. I wished I could be exactly like her …”*. 📚Muslim My People! Instead of fighting, quarreling or warning the men against injustice, mistreating their spouses, women who fear mistreatment or desertion are told by Allah (swt) that they can seek a means of reconciliation. Yes. What many people don’t realize is that Surah 4:128 was actually composed in relation to prophet Muhammad’s attitude towards his wife Sauda bint Zamah because she had become old and unattractive. The late Sunni scholar - Ibn Kathir wrote: *"Making peace is better than separation. An example of such

 This world is not eternal home.  Alhamdulillah, There once lived a very beautiful lady. She was so beautiful that everyone who looks at her face cannot take away from looking her.  And everyone likes to sit and get her as a wife. Day and night, people will seek to meet her but she only meets those with wealth.. so many people spend time to get wealth to seek her while others say we will not chase her but be ourselves and think of Allah.  So those seeking wealth spend their entire life chasing wealth to marry this beautiful wife but after they acquired it with billions, they came to compete and see who is the first in getting the wealth to get this lady.  As they said, they were showing their money and competing but this lady smiled and said give me all your money and i will see if it is original not counterfeit.  They agreed to give everything they had for their entire lives.  The beautiful lady took it and vanish and left them starring and fighting eachother.  They regretted so deepl

 Our children are Amaanah upon us.  Alhamdulillah, our children in Islam are amanah and Allah will question every parents concerning the affairs of their children.  Allah subhana wa ta'Ala says in Quran,  At-Tahrim 66:6 O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allāh in what He commands them but do what they are commanded. As reported in Hadith,  It has been narrated on the authority of Ibn 'Umar that the Prophet (May be upon him) said: Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock. The Caliph isa shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects (as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family and shal be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her

 Be a muslim with contentment and satisfaction of the heart.  Alhamdulillah, the greatest honour Allah did for us is making us muslims.  Apart from that, another great blessing is to have content heart and to be satisfied in life with what we have.  The messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam said,  The rich person is not the one with many resources but the one whose heart is content.  Tirmidhee.  We can get the billions in this world but if our heart is not content and satisfied, we still think we are poor.  Allah says in Quran,  Ibrahim 14:7 وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِى لَشَدِيدٌ  And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.'" So if we are grateful and content, Allah will  give us what will make us satisfied.  Allah says to rasulullah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam,  Al-Layl 92:21 وَلَسَوْفَ يَر

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Arba'a, 24th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Wednesday, 28th August 2024). *_HOW GIVING UP MUSIC MADE ME MORE PRODUCTIVE_*. BismilLah.  Let's finalise on this topic we started 2 days ago based on a true life story; So here are the benefits I got from giving up music. Quality of prayer significantly improving. A friend of mine said that salah is a barometer for a persons life. It accurately indicates your relationship with ALLAH. If your salah is good, then everything else is good. Even if you are going through obstacles, as long as you have your salah that you are performing with sincerity and humility, your eemaan will be your strength. However, when I listened to music, I found that it became stored in my heart and mind like data, only to be played out when I was talking to my Lord. You know those times when you’re praying and everything is silent, and in the back of your mind, a song is replaying over and over which makes it hard to concentrate… You get

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul Jumuat, 19th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Friday, 23rd August 2024). *_TAU’BAH  (SEEKING FORGIVENESS) is our khutbah today be-izniLLAH_*. BismilLaah. Alhamdulillah for granting us another blessed day of the week.  As believers, we must run away from sins as one runs away from a wild animal.  Even a minor sin makes a true believer restless as if a mountain is above his head and is about to fall on him and crush him. Let's make a U-turn in life, wash off our slate of deeds, eliminate the bad deeds, and protect our good deeds. Method of making Tau’bah are as follows: 1. Immediately abstain from the sin.  2. Regret and wish one had never indulged in the sin.  3. Resolved to never commit the sin again seeking help from ALLAH.  4. If one has violated the rights of another person, it is necessary to seek forgiveness from that person.  After making sincere tau’bah be confident in the acceptance of your tau’bah. ALLAH (Subhanahu WaTaala) is all-Merciful and all for

 *Discussing Sawdah* [[----- Part 1-of-8 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم The Holy Prophet (PBUH) never thought of marrying another woman as long as Khadijah (R.A) was alive. Umme-Saudah (R.A) bint Zam'ah was the first woman to enter into the marriage with the Holy Prophet after the death of Khadijah (R.A). She was about 50 years old when she was married to Muhammad (PBUH). She was first married to Sakran bin Umro (R.A) bin Abd-Shams, who was her cousin. Her father was Zam'a bin Khais bin Abd-Shams. Her mother was "Shamoos bint Khais bin Omero". Saudah (r.a) was among the first of those who testified to faith in Allah (swt) and the messenger (PBUH).. She accepted Islam in a time when doing so could very likely mean torture and even death at the hands of the Quraysh. But Saudah didn’t let fear stop her from affirming the truth. Saudah was the first Muslim in her family and she played a vital role in her husband coming to Islam. She was a

 The things that nullifies ablution.  Alhamdulillah, Ablution is a minor purity and as reported in hadith,  When one makes intention to make ablution and as he wash his hands, the sins from his hands are removed and when he washes his mouth, the sins he commits with his mouth is washed away As reported in hadith,  Abu Ayyub, Jabir and Anas said that when this verse came down, “In it are men who love to be purified, and God loves those who purify themselves,”* God’s messenger said, “God has praised you Ansar for purification. What does your purification consist of?” They replied, “We perform ablution for prayer, wash after seminal emission, and cleanse ourselveswith water.” He said, “That is it, so keep on doing it.” *1. Qur'an, ix, 108. Ibn Majah transmitted it. Mishkat al-Masabih 369. Humran, the freed slave of 'Uthman reported: I brought for Uthman b. 'Affan the ablution water. He performed ablution and then said: Verily the people narrate from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)

 The shaytan that comes between a person and his prayers.  As reported in hadith,  Narrated by Abu Hurairah R.A saying,  I heard the messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam saying,  When Satan hears the call to prayer, he turns back and breaks the wind so as not to hear thecall being made, but when the call is finished he turns round and distracts (the minds of those who pray), and when he hears the Iqama, he again runs away so as not to hear its voice and when it subsides, he comes back and distracts (the minds of those who stand for prayer). Sahih Muslim 389. So if anyone sees distraction of satan while praying should spit three spat to his left side  As reported in Hadith,  Uthman b. Abu al-'As reported that he came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said: Allah's Messenger, the Satan intervenes between me and my prayer and my reciting of the Qur'an and he confounds me. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said:, That is (the doing of a) Satan (devil) who is known as

 The Hadith to reflect of a good behavior as believers  Alhamdulillah, Good manners are part of islam and anyone who has no good manners lacks a lot of from his deen.  Allah s.w.t praised the messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam of having good qualities and manners.  Allah says,  Al-Qalam 68:4 وَإِنَّكَ لَعَلَىٰ خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ  And indeed, you are of a great moral character. The messenger of Allah was praised having good manners.  In the hadith,  The messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam said,  I was sent to complete good manners.  Ahmad.  The prophet s.a.w had a good manner and was called Al Amin for his trustworthiness.  Although the people of makkah hated his message, they have any any defect in his manners and loved him before his message of islam.  And islam came to teach us manners and how to live with people with kindness, mercy and honesty.  As reported in hadith,  It was narrated that Anas bin Malik said: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Whoever gives u

 *About Khadeejah* [[----- Part 7-of-7 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Nana Khadijah (a.s) died in 620CE. Muhammad (PBUH) also lost his uncle Abu Talib during this date, and would forever refer to it as "the Year of Sorrow”. The Prophet (PBUH) would remember his wife throughout the rest of his life; so much so that his youngest wife, Ayesha, stated that she was never as jealous of any other woman as she was of Khadijah. *Lessons:* Doing everything possible, making your husband or wife *"Miss You"* even after separation (Death or Divorce) Popular proverb: *"The cow doesn't know the value of its tail until it is cut off"* - Meaning, you don’t know what you have until it’s gone. My People! If there was a woman in Islam to be emulated by the women of our ummah, Nana Khadijah surely ranks at the top. In some narrations, it was said that in the final moments of her life, angel Jibreel (AS) descended, giving her greetings from Alla

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm al-ithnayn, 22nd day of Swafar, 1446AH (Monday, 26th August 2024). *_HOW GIVING UP MUSIC WILL MAKE YOU MORE PRODUCTIVE_*. BismilLah.  Unfortunately, the love of music to some muslims has replaced the love of the Qur'an AstaghfirulLah. That's dangerous and disaster in our ways of life. If you listen to QUR'AN less than you do to Music, then trust me, you are far from the mercy of ALLAH. You've switched off your own lights in your room and complaining about darkness. It's like washing your dirty clothes(our dark heart) with urine(music). Let's read how someone changed his life from darkness to light as follows;  I used to have a library of lyrics in my head, and I would always be up to date with new songs and share them with my friends. I wouldn’t leave my house without headphones. It was something I was dependent on to study and relax, while in my car… it was just a significant part of my life.  And then I gave it up! I used to hear

 The story to reflect.  Being grateful to Allah always.  Alhamdulullah, there once lived a young man who was from a poor family. He had nothing to feed on and he felt desperate thinking of what to do.  One-day, As he was walking there-upon, he said to himself,  If i were from so and so rich family, i would have been happy.  Suddenly, he came across a big mansion and so beautifully made, he stood gazing the building and not long, the window was opened and inside was a man who peeped the window staring at the man with sobbing eyes.  The young man was confused why as to see a wealthy man crying.  The wealthy man gestured and said to him to enter  He entered as he saw many guards but the man said to him, i have everything in life but never had a good sleep or eat a full plate of food.  I am diagnosed with strange sickness since childhood and it has made me saddened since.  I had all money but cannot buy my health and enjoyed this wealth i had.  The poor realised wealth is not everything. 

 Envy Between Intellect and Ignorance Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali رحمه الله wrote: “The intelligent person envies whoever spends their wealth in the path of goodness and obtaining lofty levels of virtue. And the ignorant person envies whoever spends their wealth on desires and using it to reach the forbidden pleasures.” Source: Latā’if al-Ma’ārif p. 547 ‏العاقل يغبط من أنفق أمواله في سبيل الخيرات ونيل علو الدرجات ، والجاهل يغبط من أنفق ماله في الشهوات وتوصّل به إلى اللذات المحرمات .  لطائف المعارف ص.547

 The question asked what is the first food of the people of paradise?  Narrated Anas: When the news of the arrival of the Prophet (ﷺ) at Medina reached `Abdullah bin Salam, he went to him to ask him about certain things, He said, "I am going to ask you about three things which only a Prophet can answer: What is the first sign of The Hour? What is the first food which the people of Paradise will eat Why does a child attract the similarity to his father or to his mother?" The Prophet (ﷺ) replied, "Gabriel has just now informed me of that." Ibn Salam said, "He (i.e. Gabriel) is the enemy of the Jews amongst the angels. The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "As for the first sign of The Hour, it will be a fire that will collect the people from the East to the West. As for the first meal which the people of Paradise will eat, it will be the caudate (extra) lobe of the fish-liver. As for the child, if the man's discharge proceeds the woman's discharge, the child attract

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul Ahad, 21st day of Swafar, 1446AH (Sunday, 25th August 2024). *_ALLAH IS WITH YOU MY PATIENT BROTHERS AND SISTERS_*.  BismilLah.  ALLAH has made patience like a horse that never gets tired, an army that can never be defeated, and a strong fortress that can never be breached. Patience and victory are twin brothers, for victory comes with patience, relief comes with distress, and ease comes with hardship. Patience is of more help to the one who has it, as it helps without any need for equipment or numbers, and its relationship to victory is like that of the head to the body.  In the Qur’aan, ALLAAH has guaranteed those who are patient that HE will give them reward without measure. HE tells us that HE is with us by guiding and supporting us and granting us a clear victory. ALLAAH says in the Quran, “Surely, I'm with those who are As‑Saabiroon (the patient)” Quran 6:46.  Do you want ALLAH to be with you always? Then let's rely only on ALLAH for better

 The six rights a muslim owes upon another muslim.  As reported in hadith,  Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Six are the rights of a Muslim over another Muslim. It was said to him: Allah's Messenger, what arethese? Thereupon he said: When you meet him, offer him greetings;when he invites you to a feast accept it. when he seeks your council give him, and when he sneezes and says:" All praise is due to Allah," you say Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah show mercy to you) ; and when he fails ill visit him; and when he dies follow his bier. Sahih Muslim 2162. These six rights are obligatory upon a Muslim. When he makes the salam saying Assalaamu Alaykum to us, we have to reply to his salam saying, Wa Alaykumus salam. Same as when another muslim sneezes and says, Alhamdulillah, one is to reply yarhamukullaah. And when he responds,the sneezer wil say yahdeekallaahu wa yuslih baarikum And when he dies and one hears of his death, it is obligatory to pray janaa'

 Never underestimate the value of health and peace of mind.  Alhamdulillah, lets reflect and look at the beautiful hadith of the messenger of Allah salla Allaahu alayhi wasalam saying,  Salamah bin 'Ubaidullah bin Mihsan Al-Khatmi narrated from his father -and he was a Companion- who said: The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said: "Whoever among you wakes up in the morning secured in his dwelling healthy in his body, having his food for the day,then it is as if the world has been gathered for him.'" Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2346. Whenever we wake up each day and we have health, peace of mind and safe with our families and had the meal for the day, it is as if the whole world is given to us. Lets value our health and peace of mind before we lose them. The messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam tells us to take advantage of five things before five comes after it. Our health before sickness Our strength before our weakness  Our wealth before poverty. Our youthful age before

 *About Khadeejah* [[----- Part 6-of-7 -----]] --------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Nana Khadījah (a.s) and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) did not have any sons who survived childhood. They had four daughters: Umm Kulthūm, Ruqayyah, Zaynab, and Fāṭimah. Fāṭimah *Lessons:* Giving birth to "Female Children" is one of the most important gifts in life Many parents today are not delighted having female kids and no males. The display of sadness over this issue is more in male parents. My People! How many girls have been far more merciful and beneficial to their parents than their brothers? How many times has a son been a source of grief for his parents, to the point that they wished he was never born? Today, if you go to hospitals, when they find out whether the foetus is male of female by doing an ultrasound scan, if it is male they tell the family, and if it is female they say nothing. *Are We Still In Jahileeyyah Era?* How similar things are today to those times of

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm As-Sabt, 20th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Saturday, 24th August 2024). *_ARGUING IN ISLAM_*. BismilLah.  Arguments over issues in the religion of Islam should be avoided as much as possible. Disputing and debating theological, legal, or historical matters will often lead to the hardening of hearts, bad feelings, and even hatred. As such, the Prophet has warned us that the nations before us went astray due to their indulgence in argumentation. Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of ALLAH, peace and blessings be upon him, said: *_No people go astray after being guided except that they indulge in arguments_*. Then the Prophet recited the verse_: *_They strike an example for you only to argue, rather, they are a quarrelsome people_*. (43:58). Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3253. We should leave arguments aside even if we are certain our position is correct and the others are upon falsehood. The Prophet has guaranteed a house in Paradise for those who avoid arguing even if they a

 The destiny (Qadr) and belief in Qadr Alhamdulillah, the sixth pillar of faith(Eeman) is Qadr As Allah says,  Al-Qamar 54:49 إِنَّا كُلَّ شَىْءٍ خَلَقْنَٰهُ بِقَدَرٍ  Indeed, all things We created with predestination. A muslim should have yaqeen and believe in qadr that everything thay comes to him is already written 50000years before the creation.  As reported in hadith,  Abdullah b. 'Amr b. al-'As reported: I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Allah ordained the measures (of quality) of the creation fifty thousand years before He created the heavens and the earth as His Throne was upon water. I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Allah ordained the measures (of quality) of the creation fifty thousand years before He created the heavens and the earth as His Throne was upon water. Sahih Muslim 2653. Also reported,  It was narrated that Suraqah bin Ju'shum said: I said: 'O Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), is one's deed in that which has already dried of the Pe

 The story to reflect.  Being grateful and kind to others as Allah has favored us. Narrated Abu Huraira: There were three persons in Bani Isra'il, one suffering from leprosy, the other bald-headed and the third one blind. Allahdecided to test them. So He sent an angel who came to the one who was suffering from leprosy and said: Which thing do you like most? He said: Beautiful colour and fine skin and removal of that which makes me detestable in the eye of people. He wiped him and his illness was no more and he was conferred upon beautiful colour and beautiful skin. He (the angel) again said: Which property do you like most? He said: Camels, or he said: The cow the narrator is, however, doubtful about it, but (out of the persons) suffering from leprosy or baldness one of them definitely said: The camel. And the other one said: Cow. And he (one who demanded camel) was bestowed upon a she-camel, in an advanced stage of pregnancy, and while giving he said: May Allah bless you in this.

 *Khanzab's Evil Plot* -------------------------------- بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم When shaitan sees the slave of Allah has not abandoned his prayer, has not delayed it, is doing it only for the Sake of Allah, he (shaytan) turns to the next trick - *which is to try and steal from our prayer*  either by letting our mind wander or by physically looking around.. Yes.. The Shaitaan tries to make us focus on anything and everything apart from Allah (swt), he reminds us to look at our clothes, accessories, daily schedules etc. Evidence: Al-Bukhaari (751) narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (ra) said: I asked the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) about looking around whilst praying, and he said: “That is something that the Shaytaan steals from a person’s prayer.” Now, *Who Is خنزب Khanzab?* This happened to one of the companions of the prophet (sahabah) whose name is Uthman Bin Abi Al-Aas, (ra), so he came complaining to the Prophet (PBUH), and he said: "The Shaitan comes between me and my salat and causes

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul Jumuat, 19th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Friday, 23rd August 2024). *_TAU’BAH  (SEEKING FORGIVENESS) is our khutbah today be-izniLLAH_*. BismilLaah. Alhamdulillah for granting us another blessed day of the week.  As believers, we must run away from sins as one runs away from a wild animal.  Even a minor sin makes a true believer restless as if a mountain is above his head and is about to fall on him and crush him. Let's make a U-turn in life, wash off our slate of deeds, eliminate the bad deeds, and protect our good deeds. Method of making Tau’bah are as follows: 1. Immediately abstain from the sin.  2. Regret and wish one had never indulged in the sin.  3. Resolved to never commit the sin again seeking help from ALLAH.  4. If one has violated the rights of another person, it is necessary to seek forgiveness from that person.  After making sincere tau’bah be confident in the acceptance of your tau’bah. ALLAH (Subhanahu WaTaala) is all-Merciful and all for

 Can one make ablution with a water that does not flow or move like lake water.  It is not allowed.  As reported in hadith,  Abu Hurairah narrated that :: the Prophet said: "Let none of you urinate [in still water, then perform Wudu with it."1 Jami` at-Tirmidhi 68. Also it is not allowed to make ghusl with that water that does not flow. Because it is not pure as no water enters to make it purified.

 Importance of Dua on Friday.  Alhamdulillah, As we know Friday is a great day in islam and there is an hour on friday in which one makes dua to Allah is never rejected.  As reported in the authentic hadith of the messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam saying,  It was narrated that ‘Abdullah bin Salam said: “I said, when the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was sitting: ‘We find in the Book of Allah that on Friday there is an hour when no believing slave performs prayer and asksAllah for anything at that time, but Allah will fulfill his need.’” ‘Abdullah said: “The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) pointed to me, saying: ‘Or some part of an hour.’ I said: ‘you are right, or some part of an hour.’ I said: ‘What time is that?’ He said: ‘It is the last hours of the day.’ I said: ‘It is not the time of the prayer?’ He said: ‘Yes (it is so), when a believing slave performs prayer and then sits with nothing but the prayer keeping him, he is still in a state of prayer.’” Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 1139. Sunan

 Reciting Surah Kahf on Friday.  Alhamdulillah, reciting surah kahf on friday is sunnah of rasulullah S. A. W and among the salaf.  The messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wasalam said,  Anyone who recites surah kahf on Friday. Abu Darda' reported Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) as saying:  If anyone learns by heart the first ten verses of the Surah al-Kahf, he will be protected from theDajjal. Sahih Muslim 809. It was narrated from An-Nawwas bin Sam'an, who said: The Messenger of Allah(s.a.w) mentioned the Dajjal one morning, he belittled him and mentioned his importance until we thought that he might be amidst a cluster of date-palms." He said: "We departed from the presence of the Messenger of Allah(s.a.w), then we returned to him, and he noticed that(concern) in us. So he said: 'What is wrong with you?'" We said: 'O Messenger of Allah! You mentioned the Dajjal this morning, belittling him, and mentioning his importance until we thought that he might be

 The prohibition of superstition as shirk in islam.  Alhamdulillah, superstition is a form of shirk.  As reported in hadith,  Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "(There is) no 'Adwa (no contagious disease is conveyed without Allah's permission). nor is there any bad omen (from birds), nor is there any Hamah, nor is there any bad omen in the month of Safar, and one should run away from the leper as one runs away from a lion." Note: The majority of scholars interpret this to mean that these things in and of themselves do not transmit or cause harm through supernatural or hidden means but that Allah is ultimately in control and any fearful superstition around these is false. Sahih al-Bukhari 5707. Ibn Abbas R.A said, The Prophet (ﷺ) once came out to us and said, "Some nations were displayed before me. A prophet would pass in front of me with one man, and another with two men, and another with a group of people. and another with nobody with him. Th

 The legacy of Umar Ibn Khattab R. A.  Alhamdulillah, Umar Ibn Khattab R. A is one of the great sahaba who through him Islam spread throughout the world after Rasulullah صل لله عليه وسلم. He was known as a staunch enemy of Islam and his people hated islam. He too hated islam and one-day took his sword with anger going to the place of the prophet Peace be Upon Him to kill him.  As he was going, he met his friend, Nu'im who asked Umar where he was going.  Umar R. A said,  I am going to kill the prophet. But Nu'im said to him,  Your sister, Fathima has also accepted the faith of islam.  So Umar r.a even became more angry and decided to go to his sister's place, Out of Anger, he banged into their room as they were reading a scroll.  Umar asked what they were reading but they refused to give him.  So out of disagreement and quarrelling, he pushed his sister and her forehead was hit to the ground as blood was coming.  Umar R. A felt regretful and became calm.  He gently asked in

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Al-Khamis, 18th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Thursday, 22nd August 2024). *_SATAN'S PLOT ON US AND OUR WEAPON AGAINST HIM_*. BismilLah.  Satan strives hard to seduce humans to make us fall into evil and sin. If a person escapes from the snares of Satan, and satan sees that we have turned to ALLAH, he starts to cast doubts into our heart regarding the sincerity of our Tawbah(Repentance) and magnify our sins in our eyes, making us think that ALLAH will not forgive such sins, because they are too many and too grave. If Satan does not find a response, he starts to remind people of their past sins and misdeeds to make us feel sad. ALLAH (Exalted be HE) says: Secret counsels (conspiracies) are only from Shaitân (Satan) in order that he may cause grief to the believers. But he can not harm them in the least, except as ALLÂH permits. And in ALLÂH let the believers put their trust. (Surah Al-Mujadalah, 58:10). Let's avoid committing sins and rely solely on ALLAH