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RELATIONSHIP WITH NON RELATIVE

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Arba'a. 10th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Wednesday, 14th August 2024). *_RELATIONSHIP WITH NON RELATIVE_*. BismilLah. 


Let's continue with our topic from yesterday's reminder. 

Another wrong and bad excuse from some Muslim brothers is that, ‘I am yet to furnish my apartment or get a permanent paying job before I can settle down’. SubhaanAllah! Do you realise the harm you are causing yourself?

How many times do you have the bad thought of having the opposite sex by your side and the feeling for fantasizing. It is by all standard advisable for one to have a decent place as shelter, but you needn’t acquire everything to get married. Getting married does not in any way mean one should start procreation outright, NO. So start the process, talk to the sister, and go ahead to knock. Introduce yourself to her parents or those in charge of her affairs and then put your trust in ALLAH. She might even help you with the marriage, and through her ALLAH can bless you with regular sources of sustenance. 

Let's make our minds up to marry our sisters. Let's begin to revive the Sunnah of the messenger of ALLAH. Marriage is a great Sunnah for success.


If the sister is mindful of ALLAH and you know it, go ahead and marry her and put your trust in ALLAH. If the brother reminds you of ALLAH and about your deen, go ahead and marry him and put your trust in ALLAH.


If you choose to graduate and find a job before marriage, that's okay but then stop the flirting, stop wasting your time accumulating sins through the haraam relationship and concentrate on your studies and your acts of worship. For brothers hanging around with non relative sisters with any excuse, please fear ALLAH and lower your gaze as you are playing with fire. Sheitan is our enemy in causing us to ruin our lives and our marriages. If you are married, focus on your wife and stay away from any opposite gender in the name of business or normal friend. You may have a sister or brother as a business customer but fear ALLAH and implement the Sharia rulings in regards to zina of the eyes and zina of the mouth, etc.


*_May ALLAH have mercy on us all and forgive our shortcomings_*. Aameen.

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