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About Khadeejah* [[----- Part 1-of-7 -----]]

 *About Khadeejah*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

The Mother of Islam, Nana Khadijah was the first wife of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and is a shinning example of a strong, independent Muslim woman with an entrepreneurial spirit. She was born in Makka. Her father's name was Khuwaylid bin Asad and he was a wealthy trader, and a popular leader of the Quraysh tribe. She was born in Makkahin in 556 CE.

Her mother and father both died within 10 years of each other. Their wealth was divided amongst the children but it was khadija (a.s) who took over the family business and expanded it. With the profit she made she helped the poor, widows, orphans, sick and the disabled people of Makka

*Lesson from the Above:*

Nana Khadijah spent her worldly riches on the poor.

In Islam, whether rich or poor, one’s financial condition is a test. Yes. Any man or woman who have a minimum of #200 in his or her pocket, cry of bad economy and refused dropping #50 inside Fissabilillahi box for the maintenance of the masjid will NOT give Zakaat if Allah (swt) bless them with Millions of Naira😃. Yes. This is the simple reason why majority of wealthy Muslims today are not giving Zakaat.

Whoever have something little and allowed 24 hours to run-out without giving Sadaqah, have missed out in many benefits INCLUDING ANGEL'S Du'a.

Evidence:

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, *“There is not a day upon which the servant awakens but that two angels descend. One of them says: O Allah, repay one who spends in charity! The other says: O Allah, give destruction to one who withholds charity!”* 📚Source: S‌ah‌i‌h‌ al-Bukha‌ri‌ 1442, S‌ah‌i‌h‌ Muslim 1010

Servants of Allah!

Khadijah gave her earnings to the poor and to the orphans, to the widows and the sick. She helped poor girls get married and provided their dowry.

Khadija was one of history’s most remarkable women.. Prophet Muhammad once said that *"the four greatest women of mankind were: Khadija bint Khuwaylid, Fatima bint Muhammad (his youngest daughter,) Maryam bint Emran (the Virgin Mary) and Asiya bint Muzahim (the wife of Pheeraoun.)"*.. Khadija continues to inspire people to this day and she left for mankind remains timeless.

Now,

Nana Khadijah's first marriage left her a widow; and following the end of her second marriage which some scholars said it was a divorce.. Khadijah turned down numerous proposals from wealthy men, expressing little desire to marry again. She instead focused on her merchant business she had inherited from her father.

*Lessons from the Above:*

Second or Third Marriage Is Neither a Curse Nor An Indication of Being Irresponsible

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) got married to 11 ladies all of them have previously married with the exception of Aishah (r.a).

And,

Since the main criterion a Muslim should seek in his wife to be is NOT VIRGINITY but good manners and piety. That's why to me, a divorced woman is actually one of the best wife materials out there especially if she's of good manners and piety.

My People!

75% of divorced Women are not that bad but a victim of circumstances. That's what makes majority of our divorcees today a better-to-choose wife materials. Yes. They were exposed to too many lessons of marital life and this helps them to do better in future relationships... All these are not obtainable in yet-to-marry single ladies and those married women who have not tested the pains associated with getting divorced.

Today,

Appreciable number of women who have not tested the life of been a divorcee always think that, - the moment they are divorced, re-marry will be easy, because.....

TO BE CONTINUED

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك

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