About Khadeejah* [[----- Part 2-of-7 -----]]

 *About Khadeejah*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Nana Khadijah's first marriage left her a widow; and following the end of her second marriage which some scholars said it was a divorce.. Khadijah turned down numerous proposals from wealthy men, expressing little desire to marry again. She instead focused on her merchant business she had inherited from her father.

*Lessons from the Above:*

Second or Third Marriage Is Neither a Curse Nor An Indication of Being Irresponsible

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) got married to 11 ladies all of them have previously married with the exception of Aishah (r.a).

And,

Since the main criterion a Muslim should seek in his wife to be is NOT VIRGINITY but good manners and piety. That's why to me, a divorced woman is actually one of the best wife materials out there especially if she's of good manners and piety.

My People!

75% of divorced Women are not that bad but a victim of circumstances. That's what makes majority of our divorcees today a better-to-choose wife materials. Yes. They were exposed to too many lessons of marital life and this helps them to do better in future relationships... All these are not obtainable in yet-to-marry single ladies and those married women who have not tested the pains associated with getting divorced or separated with their spouses.

Today,

Appreciable number of women who have not tested the life of been a divorcee always think that, - *"the moment they are divorced, re-marry will be easy, because countless applications will be trooping through left right center, begging them to pick them as husband materials"* - until it happens and they smell the reality... Imagine women who Allah (swt) have covered their secret challenging their husbands to divorce them, anytime there's little agreeable disagreement - *Divorce me! Divorce me! Divorce me!* -- Until one day when it happens and they smell the reality. May Allah forbid.

Therefore,

I'm using this medium to appeal to my beloved sisters who are married to bear with their spouses especially in this trying times of bad economy and the likes.

If it's lack good feeding, remember that it does happen in Prophet Muhammad's House that 3months they don't use to cook. Yes. Prophet Muhammad's wives narrated that they used to survive on dates and water for 3 months.. Allah (swt) allowed this to happen to HIS most beloved servant and Prophet (Muhammad) so that we will learn lessons from it

Now,

Nana Khadija did not travel with her trade caravans. Instead, she employed agents who would trade on her behalf for a commission.

*Lessons from the Above:*

It's Not Prohibited For Women Leveling Their Houses For Good Reasons (Business or Office Work, etc)

Islamically, it's a condition  that women leaving their homes for genuine reasons should not only display their adornment to non maharam men BUT should also observe "Hijab of the eyes".

What is Hijab of the Eyes?

Hijab of eyes is a particular way of being decent within Islamic precepts.. Both men and women are expected to keep their gazes downcast unless it is allowed.. Men are expected to do this to avoid lustful thoughts when looking at any woman who is not their wife.. Women are expected to keep their gaze downcast as a way of protecting themselves.

Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Prophet (saw) said: *"… the adultery of the eyes is looking at that which is not allowed…"*📚Bukhari & Muslim

Hijab of eyes is a particular way of being decent (inward and outward). And this mean......

TO BE CONTINUED

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سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك