About Khadeejah* [[----- Part 4-of-7 -----]]

 *About Khadeejah*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

One of Nana Khadija’s servants, Maysarah, had accompanied Muhammad on his journey and relayed to Nana Khadija that during their return, Muhammad had stopped to rest under a tree that: "none but a prophet ever sat beneath”. He also claimed to have seen two angels standing near Muhammad as he slept, protecting him from the sun. This indicated that Muhammad was the prophet of the people who was already expected. Knowing this, Nana Khadija considered proposing marriage to her agent. The couple was married monogamously for twenty-five years.

*Lessons:*

It's permissible for a woman to propose to a man

It is permissible for a woman to propose marriage to a man but it is not always necessarily advised considering the ways some men are treating their wives today. Yes. This is the person who proposed marriage to woman and treating her badly, what about if she's the one who proposed to him?

A woman can do this only, if the man is good in character & he is religious, and not because he's handsome or rich, and should be done within the framework of Islamic law.

Unfortunately Today,

Women that proposed marriage to their husbands, many of the women are struggling to keep their marriages. It’s like the case of what a preacher said many years ago, “What you struggle to get, you struggle to keep.”

Did you know why i can't advice women to propose marriage to men?

There are some cases where some men agreed to marry the females that proposed to them. But some of those men agreed because they wanted to have free sex for some time. They would pretend along 😃 but after some time, they would zoom off. Such females are left licking their wounds and filled with painful memories of how foolish they were to have used their bodies, time, money and emotions of love on a complete crook.

I have also heard about some women, who proposed marriage to their husbands and eventually got married, ended in divorce.

My People!

Come to think of it, have you ever seen a female bird or a female fowl or a female dog pursuing the male for sex? Me, I never see o. E no good make a bird or animal get sense pass human being o.

Servants of Allah!

Quran chapter 28 verse 23–27, *"When he arrived at Midian’s waters, he found a group of men watering [their flocks], and beside them two women keeping their flocks back, so he said, ‘What is the matter with you two?’ They said, ‘We cannot water [our flocks] until the shepherds take their sheep away: our father is a very old man.’ He watered their flocks for them, withdrew into the shade, and prayed, ‘My Lord, I am in dire need of whatever good thing You may send me,’ and then one of the two women approached him, walking shyly, and said, ‘My father is asking for you: he wants to reward you for watering our flocks for us.’ When Moses came to him and told him his story, the old man said, ‘Do not be afraid, you are safe now from people who do wrong.’ One of the women said, ‘Father, hire him: a strong, trustworthy man is the best to hire.’ The father said, ‘I would like to marry you to one of these daughters of mine.."* 📚Q28 verse 23–27

Now,

The Quran is not a story book neither a history book, its a book of guidance. Any words and actions of an individual mentioned in the Quran is to teach us a profound lesson.

And,

If we notice well, the girls request their father to hire him and father asked Musa (alaihi salaam) to marry his daughter because they liked him. Notice that the daughters themselves never approach Musa (alaihi salaam) directly with the proposal!.

TO BE CONTINUED


سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك نشهد ان لا اله الا انت نستغفرك ونتوابوااليك