BOY/GIRL RELATIONSHIP, THE HIDDEN HARD TRUTH

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Ath-thalaatha. 9th day of Swafar, 1446AH (Tuesday, 13th August 2024).

*_BOY/GIRL RELATIONSHIP, THE HIDDEN HARD TRUTH_*. BismilLah. 

My dear brothers and sisters in particular, Assalam Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu. This reminder is so dear to my heart, as such for ALLAH'S ’s sake, pay heed, and make steps towards correction if you are guilty, especially my sisters in CAMPUS. 

Dating is a very delicate topic. Almost every muslim youth and some aged fall short. “Dating” as seen in the West today is entirely haraam and a no go area to every well-meaning Muslim, because dating as defined by western culture is NOT devoid of sex relationship, touching, alcoholism and other vices that are frowned against in Islam.

It is important to note that there are no blessings if we even achieve success in completing our education with the disobedience of ALLAH through zina. How many university graduates are living without jobs? Even with jobs, you will never find peace if you involve zina within your studies. Won't you feel respected and honoured when you manage to marry as a virgin sister? Don't be fooled with the promise that he intend marrying you sister. Concentrate on your studies. Develop a good relationship with ALLAH. Dress decently on campus. If for some reason you come across a brother or sister and can get married and continue your education, you can do especially if parents agree to sponsor and support both couples. 

A very strange excuse mostly given by sisters is that marriage is not about rush.

WHEN YOU RUSH, YOU WILL CRUSH’….SubhaanAllah!!

If indeed you know the implications of what you are saying in the sight of ALLAH, you would have started crying and seek forgiveness.

The messenger of ALLAH sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam said, a woman that trained two daughters and they get married, ALLAH assures her with Jannah. This hadith Simply means that you can either increase the chances of your mother being assured of Jannah, rather than better have a change of mind. Those of you sisters who keep writing on social media that you love your mother, then show her more love by getting married. Give her the pride she so deserve. Either she is dead or alive. How many sisters reading this have their mothers in the grave, and you still think you are not in a rush?

When you say you are not in a rush, what that means is that, you think the messenger of ALLAH was wrong when he said we should hurriedly marry the bachelors among us for that will prevent vices in the society and brings ALLAH'S ’s mercy. SubhaanAllah! I have been a witness to so many cases of sisters who claimed they were not in a rush for marriage. Today, ALLAH has also halted them, and no man is in the rush to marry them. The beauty is gradually fading away. The majority of them have their first degrees, some with masters and even PhDs, and some are even workers, but NO ONE is just coming for their hands in marriage. A high percentage of them simply thought they were not in any rush for marriage and busy accomulating certificates and money and can hardly recite the Qur'an and today, they are paying for their actions. One of them actually encouraged me to write this piece. If you don’t rush to complete half of your deen, then ALLAH will also not be in any rush to bless all the certificates you are piling up.

My dear sister, don’t get deceived by Shaitan. Follow the instructions of the messenger of ALLAH before you begin to regret it. To be continued tomorrow in shaaALLAH and. *_May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect us from any satanic influences_*. Aameen.