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Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage Episode 267 HOMES FALLING APART

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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*


*Episode 267*


HOMES FALLING APART


A father may be on his bed sleeping and snoring heavily, not knowing that his son is still awake, having a sex-chat with a girl in another country!

A mother may be observing tahajjud at night, not knowing that her daughter is still online sending her unclad pictures to her boyfriend in another city entirely!  

A wife may be sleeping beside her husband, not knowing that her husband is watching porn on the net!

A husband may be at work hustling for his family, not knowing that his wife is making video calls and laughing with strange men at home with her phone! 

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This is how social media has messed up human lives, even if you keep your daughters at home 24/7, men can still creep onto her through her phone.

If you observe that your children are beginning to isolate themselves in their rooms and they are always glued to their phones, then know that something is wrong. 

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In this generation, one should be very prayerful, no amount of close monitoring can keep children away from social media indecency, nurturing one's family upon sound aqeedah (creed) is the bed rock of it, if you fail to do so, then you cannot stop things from falling apart! 

However, if you plant a sound aqeedah(Creed) into their hearts, it becomes easy for taqwa (piety) to overwhelm them, either they like it or not!!


May Allāh (Sub-haanahu wata'aala) guide us. Ameen

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