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 THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yaumul Ahad, 2nd day of Muharram 1444AH. (Sunday, 31st of July 2022). *_THE GATES OF GOODNESS_*. BismilLah.  Narrated Mu'adh bin Jabal [radhi-yAllahu 'anhu]: The Prophet (ALLAH'S Messenger ) said to him: "May I show you the gates of goodness? (They are): (1) Fasting is a screen from Hell. (2) As-Sadaqah (deeds of charity in ALLAH'S Cause) extinguishes (removes) the sins, as the water extinguishes the fire. (3) Standing in Salat (performing of prayers) by a person during the middle (or the last third) part of a night." Then the Prophet (sallalLaahu Alaihi Wasallam) recited: "Their sides forsake their beds." (QURAN 32:16) (Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi) (Tafsir Al-Qurtubi). Search for the tafseer of this beautiful verse.  *_May ALLAH, AL-GHAFOOR (The Forgiving, The Exceedingly Forgiving) aid us to be able to be steadfast in Fasting, given sadaqah and praying at night_*. Aameen.

 ﷽ ➖ ➖ ➖  *BBNAIJA* ➖ ➖ ➖  *Entertainment or Spread of Fitnah?* ➖ ➖ ➖ A lot of us are familiar with the Reality TV show, Big Brother Naija. There's a craze whenever it's aired. It trends more than anything on social media, such that even those who do not watch the show come to know all that happens in it. People follow it devotedly as though it is of immense benefit to them. For those who do not know, BBnaija is a show where all the contestants (both male and female) live together in an isolated house as "housemates" for a period, competing for a sum of money. In the said house, there is zero privacy, as there are cameras and microphones all over, 24/7. In their desperate quest to win the ultimate prize, the housemates forget that virtues such as morality, dignity, and self-respect exist. With eyes fixed on the prize, they throw caution to the wind and display all kinds of disgusting and immoral habits with reckless abandon. Obscene images and actions, vulgar words an...

 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *ALL DEEDS RECORDED* ➖➖➖ *Beware of this* ➖➖➖ Allah ﷻ says   *وُجُوهٌ يَوْمَئِذٍ مُّسْفِرَةٌ*   _Some faces that Day will be bright_   *ضَاحِكَةٌ مُّسْتَبْشِرَةٌ*   _laughing, rejoicing at good news._  [80:38-39] Meaning, the people will be divided into two parties. There will be faces that are Musfirah, which means bright. They will be happy and pleased due to the joy that will be in their hearts. The good news will be apparent on their faces. These will be the people of Paradise. _  *وَوُجُوهٌ يَوْمَئِذٍ عَلَيْهَا غَبَرَةٌ*   _And other faces that Day will be dust-stained_   *تَرْهَقُهَا قَتَرَةٌ*   _Darkness will cover them._  [80:40-41] Ibn 'Abbas رضي الله عنه said "This means that they (the faces) will be overcome with darkness" _ All of your activities online are written in your book of deeds just as if you were to do them offline. A glance too many at the unlawful, A secret chit chat ...

 DAILY ISLAMIC  REMINDER. Yaum As-Sabt, 1st day of Muharram,1444AH (Saturday, 30th July 2022). *_MUHARRAM IS A BLESSED MONTH TO INCREASE GOOD DEEDS AND AVOIDING BAD DEEDS. BismilLah.  ALLAH'S sacred month of Muharram is a blessed and important month. It is the first month of the Hijri calendar and is one of the four sacred months concerning which ALLAH says; "Verily, the number of months with ALLAH is twelve months (in a year), so it was ordained by ALLAH on the Day when HE created the heavens and the earth; of them, four are sacred. That is the right religion, so wrong not yourselves therein … "Al-Qur'an 9:36. The Prophet (peace and blessings of ALLAH be upon him) said: "The year is twelve months of which four are sacred, the three consecutive months of Dhul-Qa'dah, Dhul-Hijjah and Muharram, and Rajab Mudar which comes between Jumadah and Sha'aban." Reported by Al-Bukhari, 2958. Muharram is so called because it is a sacred (muharram) month and to co...

 DAILY ISLAMIC  REMINDER. Yaumul Jumuat, 30th day of Dhul Hijjah,1443AH (Friday, 29th July 2022). *_SATAN'S PLOT ON US AND OUR WEAPON AGAINST HIM_*. BismilLah.  Satan strives hard to seduce humans to make us fall into evil and sin. If a person escapes from the snares of Satan, and satan sees that we have turned to ALLAH, he starts to cast doubts into our heart regarding the sincerity of our Tawbah(Repentance) and magnify our sins in our eyes, making us think that ALLAH will not forgive such sins, because they are too many and too grave. If Satan does not find response, he starts to remind people of their past sins and misdeeds to make us feel sad. ALLAH (Exalted be HE) says: Secret counsels (conspiracies) are only from Shaitân (Satan), in order that he may cause grief to the believers. But he cannot harm them in the least, except as ALLÂH permits. And in ALLÂH let the believers put their trust. (Surah Al-Mujadalah, 58:10). Let's avoid commiting sins and rely solely on ALL...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️17 WRITER'S POV  For a young girl like her to have all these  nonsense attitudes, it's obvious she lack home training or that's how her mother treats her co wives at home because she came from a polygany home. when ramadan was approaching i left their building to rent an apartment for just months. Thou abu did not  want me to leave but i insisted so he rented an apartment for me but the same street infact the house was not far to their building. Actually the main reason i left was because of that new wife. Her attitudes was irritating me and i might just beat her up one day.  Imagine this girl telling her senior wife to pack her things and leave the kitchen for her because she can't share kitchen with anybody🙄. Wallohi ummu haneef gentleness was something else. May Allah rewards her with khayr. ❤️Throughout the ramadan period i didn't visit them except if ummu children came to play with me and on sallah day. To cut the long story short,it was exact...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️16     WRITER's  POV Ummu haneef younger sister also joined us at the clinic that day.her sister was staying with her at the clinic while i was taking care of the kids at home.i will took them to their mother after eating breastfast and returned home during lunch time. Could believe that throughout the days she spent at the clinic,this so called new bride didn't come to visit. However,Ummu narrated what she was passing through to me on the third day she got admitted.and the new bride, she said,she has never step her legs inside the kitchen or do any thing at home apart from watching television since they did walimoh nikkah and abu has also abandoned her room since then. When she complained to abu, he she was just been jealous,he said she should continue doing everything at home till iyawo gives birth 🙄.when iyawo was  doing fine,is not that her pregancy was disturbing her o. ' And you agreed to it'i asked' what can i do,i agreed to it for peace to ...

 ❤️MY HOME❤️ 15    WRITER'S POV  ❤️I had a program at lagos in the year 2019 so it was this abu's house which is my relative i stayed before i got an apartment.it was seven months after he did his third wife nikkah then. on the third day i got to their house,i noticed it was this second wife that was doing everything at home but i kept quiet thinking it might be her week to the house works not until after two weeks.she will sweep, wash dirty plates and cook. When i asked her what was going on, why was she the only doing everything at home, she said i should just be watching. Another thing i observed about her, she was lean,she looked sick and depressed but she was only trying to hide her sadness. Sometimes i will be talking to her while her mind will be somewhere else. Could you believe that the fishes this woman was frying was burning right in front of her and she didn't knew until i told her. I was worried for her that i told abu his wife ummu haneef (second wife) ...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 14 My warigida (iyale) with anger problem eh,she cant just control herself when that jinn anger started. well she ran away as usually after she poured hot semo on her husband's head.Abu was taken to the hospital and was discharged the next day,as expected,some of her family members came to apologised  that night but abu insisted on divorcing her. We continue leaving like neighbors after my co wife left and i didn't hear anything about taking another wife again untill the second day i did naming ceremony of my third child. ❤️He just came to me that day 'tomorrow is the aqidu nikkah with my new wife at iwo town"he said' when have you been planning this without informing me"i replied' i don't want to disturb you because of your condition then, alhamdulillah you have given birth now" he said' thor may Allah put barka 'i replied and continue with my work" we are going together tomorrow, so be prepare,take your children to you...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 13       Writer's POV  You wonder if this truly happened right ? you wonder how gullible this second wife was right ?. trust me it truly happened infact the man is my uncle. you see this second wife, Allah just blessed abu with that woman but he was too blind too see it. His first wife was a terrible headache while the second one is panadol extra but abu  didn't realized it. She's beautiful, calm,simple,well behaved and nice to  everybody.  ❤️My co wife has  changed a little, no more unnecessary fight.thou we didn't talk to eachother nor greet.but the fact that peace reigned alhamdulillah. exactly three months she returned to the house,i was also six months gone then.That evening abu called us to the sitting room, after alots of prayers and lecture from him, he told us he wanted to take in the third wife.'like seriously 'i said' yes i mean it and am serious,i wanted to marry this girl not to do zina with her 'he reply sternly' a...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 12  My parent made him promise to open a shop for me which he promised but never fulfilled. when i got back,my husband told me his phone was faulty so he  collected my own only for me to see my phone with mutiyah.so this man lied to me,i confronted him but he begged me and promised to buy me another one. after two weeks,he gave me torch light phone not even new. I have never experienced the joy of marriage, sometimes i just think,think and started crying. I will be on solat (prayer) sometime and i wont know what i was reading. I will have to sit down and cool my head before i starts all over. I was not a prayer type but that  time,i thought i need to be more closer to Allah than before. I started doing tahajjud, fasting every monday and thursday and doing alots of ibaadah. ❤️One evening,i was suprised to see my hubby home early that day. he was cheerful unlike before,he made a romantic moves after seven months and i quickly grap my copy. you can't blame...

 ❤️MY HOME❤️11 She said even if i kill myself she will marry abu. Alhamdulillah abu met us at there but i was suprised when this girl started crying immediately she saw abu.she said we have been abusing since,infact abu's was just looking like 😨abu apologized to mummy on her behalf and took his concubine in. Well i was sure that woman talk sense into his head that night but i wasn't there.i just knew they were discussing. however,my husband left early the next morning with her to meet his suppliers so that we wont kill the apple of his eyes before he returns .This woman left on the third day so we continue living like a neighbour. It wont hurt me much if he was performing his responsibilities at home but no.there was no husband and wife relationship between us anymore. Well, as some people do say 'no matter how worse a person is there must be a good side of him or her" yes my husband is good at buying me niqobs and khimars that's all. Deep down i didn't need t...

 ❤️MY HOME❤️ 10 Just couldn't take it anymore so i explained what i have been going through to my mom  who bursted into cry after hearing what i said.she shouted 'ayemi o' do you want to kill yourself in silent ? i swear if your husband don't show up till your baby will be discharged today, you are not going back to his house even if he comes,i will show his a mother madness 'my mom said angrily pacing up and down" i knew what my mom could do so i begged her not to fight with him. Surprisingly,he came around 2pm when we were about to leave the hospital.he wanted to pay for the hospital bills but mom has paid before he came. Before we left the hospital that day mom called him to one side and discussed with him but i didn't hear what they discussed.  ❤️One day,my husband elder sister came to visited.she's the person remain for them as mother. on her arrival, my husband gave me #500 to cook,i told him it won't be enough because we are having visitor an...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 9 I also called to informed his eldest brother living at offa,he was kind enough and spoke to him but my husband has made up his mind. they started their lovey dovey,this girl stopped going to school after she wrote junior waec so my hubby took her to a pharmacy store where she started learning about medicines ,, ❤️ This girl started coming to our house every day.she sometimes sleep overmm with my hubby in the same room till the next day. then we have not fixed our taps so i used to fetch water. i will filled the buckets in my husband's bathroom including kitchen and my own bathroom. Could you believe that whenever this girl comes at night and there was no water in my hubby's bathroom,he will called me to go and fetched water for her even if i was sleeping and i will. For over six months that she started coming to sleep over ,my husband never step his legs in my room again.This girl will enter my kitchen and ate whatever i cooked and left the plate in his concubin...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 8 For the first time since have gotten married,i fought my husband for using my soap anyhow  because i knew he was doing it intentionally. he got angry and told me never to do that soap again 'you can do whatever you like,i will continue with this business and nothing will happen 'i yelled" why are you even intetested in working ? Are you hungry or what ! See if you continue doing this business may Allah remove His barka from it "he yelled back and left". I cried and cried that day not knowing what to do.i can't even believe he could curse.so i stopped doing the soap business because i didn't want to go against his wish. Not just that,there was no sexual satisfaction anymore. Me and  my husband will be sleeping on the same bed for three weeks without having sex.infact two months to the extent i thought i was irritating him. So i sent for one of my sister to buy me new night wears and underwear which she did but my husband didn't look at ...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️7  Alhamdulillah Allah blessed this business for me,i was selling in packs,i started making money but when my husband sees this,he said i should stop taking flours in the store unless i want to pay which i agreed and started buying it . That was how he reduced the money for food he normally gave me to 500naira when he's capable of giving me five thousands. I didnt complain,i will added money and made better soup. Not long after that he said i should stop doing the business.i asked why but he didn't gave any tangible reason but he made a statement 'sey ofe ti arami la ni '(do you want to make it through me?) that statement was a like a bomb to me, please is it bad to make it in life through my husband ?.  ❤️I stopped doing chinchin even thou i wasn't happy with his decision. during this time, he has seperated with the sister he introduced to me and started with another person .Allah has blessed my womb again,i was pregnant with my second child.i didn...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️6 ❤️After my co wife left the house, i started seeing some strange attitudes from my husband. when my pregnant was five month before my co wife left,my husband told me about a sister he liked and would love to be his third wife. He begged me to help him talk to her which i did. Infact i didn't think twice before i accepted to talk to the sister.she was suprised and said to me "but you just got married to your husband,why are you talking to me on his behalf? Aren't you jealous? 'i smiled and told her i was jealous but have trained myself to be calm in every situation i find myself and i will support my husband and love whatever he loves. This sister promised to get back to me but unfortunately i didn't know how my co wife knew about it, she went to this sister's house to warned her not to marry her husband which made this sister to finally rejected my husband then.  ❤️So after my co wife left, my husband brought the issue of any sister again and ask...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 5 ❤️ I put a call through abu and asked if he had a fight with her before he left and he said no. he also heard the sounds of breaking things so he told me to find a way to leave the house and the call hanged. I gentlely opened my kitchen door to leave not knowing this woman was already coming to me, she threw the cutlass she was holding and it nearly hit my head.i ran back to the kitchen and locked the door. Hot tears fell from my eyes,what if the cutlass hitted me and i die ? All could say was 'Alhamdulillah' i called abu again and he said he was already on his way that one of his workers also called him.she continue banging on my kitchen door with cutlass infact the door almost divided into two when abu car horned outside. I could heard she dropped the cutlass and ran... ❤️ The word 'SUBHANALLAH' made me opened the door. getting to the sitting room this woman had destroyed almost everything there.my husband who was looking around with his mouth opened s...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 4 ❤️ After i lost the second pregancy,i just wish i could show this woman the kind of person i am.naturally i am not the simple type just that Allah blessed me with sabr (patiency). she was just two years older than me so she is not the person i can't make trouble with. You wonder i knew her age ? That woman talks too much especially when she's angry. There was a day she was telling me that she can born, comparing me with her first daughter who was ten years old while i was twenty eight then. That was the day she mentioned her age.i just smiled and continued with what i was doing ignoring her trouble ❤️I was told at the hospital that i was perfectly fine but i should avoid any hard work anytime i get pregnant again. so my husband suggested i should be attending modrasah to avoid bruhaha whenever he was not around because he also knew what his wife is capable of. I started attending modrasah and closed by 12pm, even after closing i won't go home.i stayed with o...

 ❤️MY HOME❤️ 3 ❤️Her words really got me and made me shed tears. we started living like a cat and rat at home. she just hate the sight of me, she wont answer if i greet her including her children. infact i dare not enter the kitchen to cook. I cook on my room whenever it's my turn to cook. Abu later gave me one room to be using as kitchen since the house is four bedroom flat and we are only using two rooms. ❤️One evening,i was inside feeling weak due to my condition, i was five weeks pregnant then. just heard my co wife knocking my door, i opened it and what i heard was "join me in the kitchen "she said and leave.i was happy this woman talk to me for the first time and immediately followed her despite my weakness.we dont cook together and it wasn't my turn to cook but i just followed her hoping this might be the beginning of good relationship between us. I got to the kitchen and met her washing the pestle and motar preparing to pound yam. She handed the pestle to me t...

 ❤️MY HOME ❤️ 2 ❤️I was introduced to his first wife but  obviously she wasn't happy or ready to accept me as her co wife. our nikkah was fixed with a month and alhamdulillah it went well.my parents made sure they bought everything i will be needing in my new home for me,you know how we ilorin use to do our wedding now 😉. Even when my husband asked for what i would like him to buy for me and my dowry,i told him not to worry. When he insisted,i told him to help me add money for the washing machine i wanted to buy which he did but paid in full. On my nikkah day,early that morning i sent someone to buy two niqob for me to suprise my husband. Infact everybody was suprised because they knew how much i dislike it... ❤️When we got home that day,my husband couldnt hide his happiness for seeing me with niqob 'i knew you will be more happy if you see me using it,that's why i decided to be using it 'i said to him "ma sha Allah, barakaLlahu feekum.but i want you to change you...

 ❤️MY  HOME ❤️ 1 ❤️Marrige they say it's a beautiful thing. it complete half of your deen. as for me,i don't know the perfect word to describe my marriage . Have known my husband long ago not knowing he is the man Allah has  destined for me. he is a well known married business man in lagos.he has two big stores where he sells flours and sugars and he was blessed.his wife is a niqobite that me and my siblings used to made jest  of then, not because of her niqob but this woman akida is something else. She doesn't answer teslim from anybody except a khimarite or niqoby like her.... ❤️My husband once came to our house to asked for my hand in marriage as a second wife but i was in school then so when i returned my mom told me about it and i immediately rejected it. and i was glad when i heard my dad also didn't want me to marry him because he is an ahlul sunnah. That evening i went to meet him at one of his store and told him i cant marry him.he asked why and i said to hi...

 DAILY ISLAMIC  REMINDER. Yaum Al-Khamis, 29th day of Dhul Hijjah,1443AH (Thursday, 28th July 2022). *_APPRECIATE THE LITTLE YOU HAVE IF YOU WANT MORE FROM ALLAH_*. Bismillah. Our Life as Muslims is a Gift from ALLAH (Azza Wa Jal, The Mighty and the Majestic). We can only polish it with obedience to ALLAH or corrupt it with disobedience. Today before you say an unkind word, Think of someone who can't speak then say Alhamdulillah. Before you complain about the taste of your food to your wife etc, Think of someone who has nothing to eat then say Alhamdulillah. Before you complain about your husband or wife, Think of someone who's crying out to ALLAH for a companion then say Alhamdulillah. Today before you complain about life, Think of someone who died younger than you, healthier than you, wealthier than you etc then say Alhamdulillah. Before you complain about your children, Think of someone who desires children but they're barren. And when you are tired and complain about yo...

 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *ALLAH ﷻ SEES YOU* ➖➖➖ *Are You Not Afraid?* ➖➖➖ Know that Allah ﷻ knows your hidden affairs, and your secrets and what is in your heart.  No secret is hidden,  Allah ﷻ is with you while you are prostrating, And knows what you are thinking whilst you prostrate, Allah ﷻ doesn't only look at the one who prays, Rather He also looks at the prayer of the one who prays when he prays it. Allah ﷻ says: *قَد أَفَلَحَ المُؤمِنُونَ* _Successful are those who are believers._ *الَّذِينَ هُم فِي صَلَاتِهِم خَاشِعُونَ* _Those who in their Salah are those who are humble._ [23:1-2] He didn't just say "Those who pray"  Allah ﷻ looks at the prayer of the one who prays! And not only just the Salah, But what is on the inside of the Salah, What is at the heart of the Salah, So show respect and manners towards Allah ﷻ when you're alone. Because indeed there is no cover between you and Allah ﷻ that covers you Allah ﷻ is always with you,  As a poet once said :  *اذا ماخلوت ا...

 DAILY ISLAMIC  REMINDER. Yaum Arba'a, 28th day of Dhul Hijjah,1443AH (Wednesday, 27th July 2022). *_ARE YOU SAVING FOR YOUR LIGHT ON JUDGEMENT DAY?_*. BismilLah.  ALLAH, the Most High, says: “One Day shall you see the believing men and the believing women, how their LIGHT RUNS FORWARD BEFORE THEM and by their right hands: (their greeting will be): “Good News for you this Day, gardens beneath which flow rivers, to dwell therein for forever. This is indeed the highest Achievement” [Al Qur’an 57:12]. On the Day of Judgement it will be dark and we will be asked to cross over a bridge that is thinner than hair and sharper than a razor blade, and there will be no light, so it will be impossible unless we’re given light by ALLAH. This light that ALLAH will give us, the power of the light, will depend on how much light was in our heart in the Dunya. So this light which is in the heart, which is not a physical light, but a spiritual light, will come on the Day of Judgement in a p...

 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *REPENTANCE* ➖➖➖  *Come Back To Allah ﷻ* ➖➖➖ From among the most beneficial acts of the heart, is seeking forgiveness from Allah (ﷻ). It is very essential that a Muslim seeks Allah's forgiveness continuously for he does not know which sin he will be taken to account for.  Allah (ﷻ) commands us to seek forgiveness from Him as He says: *وَٱسْتَغْفِرِ ٱللَّهَۖ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا* _And seek forgiveness of Allah . Indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.__ [4:106] It is incumbent upon every Muslim to seek Allah's forgiveness for he may not know when death will catch up with him and it will be too late to repent.  This is the worst regret!  You know the truth to yourself. If the angel of death comes upon you today, ◾What do you think Allah will judge you for?  ◾Are you ready to meet Allah (ﷻ) with your loads of sins?  ◾What about the Sunnah and ibadat you neglected?   ◾Are you dying upon the haqq (as a true Muslim)?...

 ﷽ ➖➖➖ *LAMENTS OF THE PEOPLE OF HELL* ➖➖➖ *Warnings from the Qur'an* ➖➖➖ Allah ﷻ says   *وَنَادَوْاْ يٰمَـلِكُ لِيَقْضِ عَلَيْنَا رَبُّكَ*   _They will cry, “O Maalik! Let your Lord finish us off.”_  Meaning, let Him destroy our souls and give us some respite from our predicament.  *قَالَ إِنَّكُمْ مَّـكِثُونَ*   _He will answer, “You are definitely here to stay.”_  [43:77] Meaning, you will have no way out from it and no refuge. Then the reason why they are doomed will be given, which is their stubborn resistance to the truth.  Prior to this, the people of Hell will actually attempt to reconcile with Allah ﷻ and gain respite and mercy. As Allah ﷻ says   *رَبَّنَا اَخْرِجْنَا مِنْهَا فَاِنْ عُدْنَا فَاِنَّا ظَالِمُوْن*   _Lord, take us away from this and if we go back to our old ways, then we shall really be evildoers.’_   *قَالَ اخْسُئُوا فِيْهَا وَ لَا تُكَلِّمُوْنِ*   _He will say "Go Away...

 DAILY ISLAMIC  REMINDER. Yaum Arba'a, 28th day of Dhul Hijjah,1443AH (Wednesday, 27th July 2022). *_ARE YOU SAVING FOR YOUR LIGHT ON JUDGEMENT DAY?_*. BismilLah.  ALLAH, the Most High, says: “One Day shall you see the believing men and the believing women, how their LIGHT RUNS FORWARD BEFORE THEM and by their right hands: (their greeting will be): “Good News for you this Day, gardens beneath which flow rivers, to dwell therein for forever. This is indeed the highest Achievement” [Al Qur’an 57:12]. On the Day of Judgement it will be dark and we will be asked to cross over a bridge that is thinner than hair and sharper than a razor blade, and there will be no light, so it will be impossible unless we’re given light by ALLAH. This light that ALLAH will give us, the power of the light, will depend on how much light was in our heart in the Dunya. So this light which is in the heart, which is not a physical light, but a spiritual light, will come on the Day of Judgement in a p...

 DAILY ISLAMIC  REMINDER. Yaum Ath-thalaatha, 27th day of Dhul Hijjah (Tuesday, 26th July 2022). *_ARE YOU AN ENEMY TO YOURSELF AND ISLAM_*. BismilLaah. One of The biggest enemies of Islam is the ignorant Muslim whose ignorance leads him/her to intolerance, whose actions distroy the true image of Islam and when the people look at him/her they think that Islam is what he/she is. ALLAH says  O Muhammad, "Shall I inform you of the greatest losers as to their deeds?" "They are those whose effort is lost in worldly life, while they think that they are doing well in work or deeds." (Al-Kahf 18:103--104)" Islam is a complete ways of life. Let's learn those ways from the Qur'an and Sunnah and act purely to please ALLAH.  *_May ALLAH (Al-Hayyu, Al-Qayyuum, The Living, The Maintainer of Life) grant us the true meaning of Islam and help us to worship and live our ways of life upon it_*. Aameen.

 Tips to Help You Last Longer in Bed. ~~~~~~ Preamble: ◉﷽◉ Lots of men are suffering silently from early ejaculation, whether they talk about it or not, it remains one of the nightmares of men during intimacy. Early ejaculation is when a man cums earlier than expected or moments (mostly 2 minutes) after penetration begins. Some early ejaculations occur due to inexperience, lack of preparation, illness, or avoidable mistakes during intimacy. Regardless, it is a disaster for both men and women, as it leads to lack of satisfaction in both partners. And women tend to suffer the most in this situation, which is why it is important and necessary for men to overcome it.  Our study shows that on average, the majority of women prefer their partners to last at least between 10 to 15 mins during penetration and in a total, 30 mins if we add both the penetration phase and the foreplay phase. While other women said they prefer their men to last at least between 20 to 40 mins. Do not be sur...

 OF WIVES WHO ARE SEX STARVED BUT CANNOT TALK We spend the whole of adolescence and early adulthood being extra conscious of sex, only to go into marriage and stop being interested in sex with our partners. Fortunately for men, our society leaves the door wide open and addresses this issue, we have a way out. For, wives, it is different. If you are sex starved, you are on your own as every door is shut. Now, here's the thing, you cannot have another partner, you cannot masturbate, you cannot play with sex toys, you cannot watch porn, yet, you cannot get what you want from your assigned partner. Worse, you dare not speak about it. Welcome to marriage as we currently run it. The saddest part is that many of those who have summoned the courage to speak up have been accused of  doing what they tried to avoid doing by speaking up.  "If you are not getting enough, it is your fault, it is probably because you have done so much before marriage or you are currently doing so much."...

 ﷽ ➖➖➖  *THE REPENTING SINNER*  ➖➖➖  *Allah ﷻ Loves This Quality*  ➖➖➖ Allah ﷻ says in Surah Al-Imran *وَالَّذِينَ إِذَا فَعَلُواْ فَـاحِشَةً أَوْ ظَلَمُواْ أَنْفُسَهُمْ ذَكَرُواْ اللَّهَ فَاسْتَغْفَرُواْ لِذُنُوبِهِمْ* _And those who, when they have committed immorality or wronged themselves with evil, remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their sins._ [3:135] Anas ibn Malik رضي الله عنه said "I was told when this Ayah was revealed, Iblis cried." In a Hadith reported in the 2 Sahihs  Abu Hurayrah رضي الله عنه narrates that the Prophet ﷺ said _“A servant committed a sin and he said: O Allah, forgive my sin! Allah the Exalted said: My servant has committed a sin and he knows he has a Lord who forgives sins and holds him accountable. Then the servant returned to his sin and he said: O Allah, forgive my sin! Allah said: My servant has committed a sin and he knows he has a Lord who forgives sins and holds him accountable. Then the servant returned to his sin a...

  *السَّـــــــلاَمُ عَلَيــْــكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكـَـاتُه* *بِسْــــــــــــــــــــــمِ اللّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيْم*   *PILLARS OF EAMAAN*          *Who is Allah?* Some of the biggest misconceptions that many non-Muslims have about Islam have to do with the word “Allah“. For various reasons, many people have come to believe that Muslims worship a different God than Christians and Jews. This is totally false, since “Allah” is simply the Arabic word for “God” – and there is only One God. Let there be no doubt – Muslims worship the God of Noah, Abraham, Moses, David and Jesus – peace be upon them all. However, it is certainly true that Jews, Christians and Muslims all have different concepts of Almighty God. For example, Muslims – like Jews – reject the Christian beliefs of the Trinity and the Divine Incarnation. This, however, doesn’t mean that each of these three religions worships a different God – because, as we have already said, there is...

   *السَّـــــــلاَمُ عَلَيــْــكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكـَـاتُه* *بِسْــــــــــــــــــــــمِ اللّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيْم*   *PILLARS OF EAMAAN* *The belief in the Existence of Allaah – Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen* It is the full attestation that Allaah, The One free of all imperfection, The Most High, exists. No one openly denied the existence of Allaah, The Mighty and Majestic, except by way of haughtiness. Otherwise it is impossible for any reasonable person to claim that this creation was appeared by chance or it came into existence without a cause, due to the fact that this is something impossible to occur as agreed upon by the people of sound intellect. Indeed the existence of Allaah, The Mighty and Majestic, is something proven by all kinds of evidences: (i) Rational (ii) Fitriyyah [from Fitrah: Natural disposition], (iii) Legal, and (iv) Hissiyyah [from Hiss: What is experienced and perceived]. All of these four evidences prove the existence of Allaah, The Mighty ...