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Alhamdulillah Allah blessed this business for me,i was selling in packs,i started making money but when my husband sees this,he said i should stop taking flours in the store unless i want to pay which i agreed and started buying it . That was how he reduced the money for food he normally gave me to 500naira when he's capable of giving me five thousands. I didnt complain,i will added money and made better soup. Not long after that he said i should stop doing the business.i asked why but he didn't gave any tangible reason but he made a statement 'sey ofe ti arami la ni '(do you want to make it through me?) that statement was a like a bomb to me, please is it bad to make it in life through my husband ?.

 ❤️I stopped doing chinchin even thou i wasn't happy with his decision. during this time, he has seperated with the sister he introduced to me and started with another person .Allah has blessed my womb again,i was pregnant with my second child.i didn't want to be an idle woman because am not used to it and  has borrowed the little money i saved (one hundred and fifty thousand) when i was doing chinchin with the promise that he would return it that weekend,only if he will give me the money tomorrow. One night,after have been waiting for him to return home and didn't see him,i checked the time it was past ten pm so i took key and went to the store outside. I didn't even know why i was going to the store,getting there,i saw it was not locked so i on my phone torch light and entered only for me to see my husband with on girl on his lap smooching. The girl quickly covered her face while he was looking down. It was then i realized i got married to a womanizer hidding under sunnah.

❤️ I hoped my husband would apologise for what i saw but he didn't infact he didn't acted as if something happened so i let it go but deep down i was hurt. i started thinking about everything going on in my marriage, firstly it was my co wife and now my womanizer  husband who  doesn't Want my progress. What a life for me !

❤️ I begged him again after some months to let me start another business which he agreed after alots of pleading.i started doing liquid soap which Allah also blessed. I had two people who helped  me to take them to market to sell and i was paying them. Suddenly my husband started using my soap which he didn't give me money to start to do sodaqoh without paying. At first,he started by using large quantity to wash just a car. 

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