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For the first time since have gotten married,i fought my husband for using my soap anyhow  because i knew he was doing it intentionally. he got angry and told me never to do that soap again 'you can do whatever you like,i will continue with this business and nothing will happen 'i yelled" why are you even intetested in working ? Are you hungry or what ! See if you continue doing this business may Allah remove His barka from it "he yelled back and left". I cried and cried that day not knowing what to do.i can't even believe he could curse.so i stopped doing the soap business because i didn't want to go against his wish. Not just that,there was no sexual satisfaction anymore. Me and  my husband will be sleeping on the same bed for three weeks without having sex.infact two months to the extent i thought i was irritating him. So i sent for one of my sister to buy me new night wears and underwear which she did but my husband didn't look at me twice. Even when i made a move.he always tell me sex is not food .He only comes to me whenever he needs me.

❤️After i gave birth to my second child, he introduced another person to me as his wife to be. when i saw this girl,  she was the person i knew very well and i didn't know anything good about her and her family so i called my husband's attention to it,besides she was too young infact you can hardly see if there are breast on her chest. She wore small jean skirt that revealed her knee with just singlet no hijab🙄. I was suprised my husband could brought such person home with the way she dressed plus her young age. But after i told him what i knew about her "she's not as young as you see her, she will soon be sixteen years old and she is ready to marry me.as for what you said about her and her family,forget it,it was her past" he said" seems you don't understand me abu,this girl,her elder sister and her mother used to beat their father infront of their house (he cuts in) 'it's okay madam, no one is perfect,Am ready to change her for better just as i did to you'he replied'

❤️ I wasn't still okay with that girl not because i didn't want my him to marry another wife but i was scared of what could happen if he eventually marry her. So i called one my husband brother living at ibadan and told him "haa i can smells jealousy here ,you don't want your husband to marry another wife abi ! Just go relax, in sha Allah nothing will happen "that was his brother respond...

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