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❤️After my co wife left the house, i started seeing some strange attitudes from my husband. when my pregnant was five month before my co wife left,my husband told me about a sister he liked and would love to be his third wife. He begged me to help him talk to her which i did. Infact i didn't think twice before i accepted to talk to the sister.she was suprised and said to me "but you just got married to your husband,why are you talking to me on his behalf? Aren't you jealous? 'i smiled and told her i was jealous but have trained myself to be calm in every situation i find myself and i will support my husband and love whatever he loves. This sister promised to get back to me but unfortunately i didn't know how my co wife knew about it, she went to this sister's house to warned her not to marry her husband which made this sister to finally rejected my husband then. 

❤️So after my co wife left, my husband brought the issue of any sister again and asked me to help him talk to her which i did again but she also rejected the proposal. in a nutshell,i spoke to four sisters on his behalf before i gave birth. After my birth,my baby was two months old when he brought the issue of another sister, but this time i told him to go and talk to her by himself or send someone closer to her. I didn't hear anything about it again for months.he later  brought a sister home and introduced her as my wife to be. By thiat time,he has stopped buying foodstuffs at home, he will give me 1000naira to make soup that's all. Thou he knew my parent do brings some foods to me whenever they harvest their farm products,like yams, garri and elubo(yam flours) but nothing concern my husband when those foodstuffs are finished.

❤️When i noticed all his strange attitudes,i thought it's the best i start working.infact he doesn't come home early like before so i told him i wanted to go and collect my result because i did nikkah immediately i wrote my final exam. When the result was out then, he refused to let me go and collect it but now i am ready. When he returned that night,i told him about the result again but he still refused to let me go.He said the result is useless because he won't allow me to work outside.I wanted to fight it that night but calmed myself and brought another idea.I told him to allow me start chinchin business at home since am good at it and have been doing it since i was in school.He agreed and even said i should be taking flour in the store.

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