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 Muslims Till Death: AS SALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU. LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                                *COMMENTARY AND TAFSIR OF THE VERSES OF THE GLORIOUS QURAN (Episode 90)*                                                       ...

 *Night Wastages* ------------------ بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم "Night Wastages" could describe a night where someone fails to take advantage of opportunities, misses important events or experiences, or lets the entire hours in the night slip away without shopping for the hearafter. My people! It's agreed that "Sleep" is an important part of living and is a way of recharging our batteries to prepare ourself to continue our daily activities. But squandering the entire hours of the night sleeping without joining PRIVILEGED and SINCERE servants of Allah (worldwide) in establishing "Night Prayer" or "Tahajjud", suggests that the night have not been better spent or utilized in a more productive way. Yes! You might be good in series of acts of worship BUT if you are not amongst Muslims who CONSISTENTLY pray Tahajjud, then, sorry! Yes. Sorry because you are lacking something huge. Evidence: Salim bin Abdullah bin Umar bin Al-Khattab (May Allah be pleas...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Arba'a, 21st day of Muharram 1447AH, Wednesday, 16th July 2025 *_THIS WORLD IS LIKE A SHADOW_*. BismilLah.  Our beloved Messenger of ALLAH (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said;   And whoever makes the Dunya(this world) his concern, ALLAH will scatter his affairs, put poverty before him (as a trial) and nothing of the world will come to him except what ALLAH Azzawajal has written for him.” ALLAH Azzawajal says “Whoever makes the hereafter his concern, ALLAH will gather together his affairs, place contentment in his heart and the world will come to him despite his reluctance.  [Reported by Ibn Maajah 3329]. Dunya (this world) is like a shadow. If you try to catch it, you will never be able to do so hattaa zurtumul Maqaabir, till death takes us to the grave. If you turn your back towards the shadows, it has no choice but to follow you. Prophet Issah(Jesus Christ) peace be upon him gave his people a very good advice when he i...

 Everyone says, "Do what makes you happy." But no one Everyone says, "Do what makes you happy." really tells you this... Discipline feels better than quick fun. Prayer gives you more peace than scrolling on your phone. And doing what matters feels way better than just chasing good feelings. True happiness isn't about always feeling good. It's about doing the right thing, even when it's tough. That's what really grows you inside - That's what lasts.

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm athalaatha, 20th day of Muharram 1447AH, Tuesday, 15th July 2025. *_CAUSES OF RAMPANT DIVORCE IN OUR CONTEMPORARY MARRIAGES_*. Bismillah. My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, the subject which I would like to share with you today has been a matter of grave concern to all Muslims, when I look at the Muslim Ummah in the world today and try to project upon the future, it get me frustrated as to the direction our offsprings coming will be going through. As a husband, your wife MUST be your best friend, your companion in life, your sister in deen and regularly pray that ALLAH Azzawajal bless your daughters and sons to have a good husband better than us and a good wife better than the mother. Ask yourself how your relationship with your wife or husband that your children are learning from.  Let's note that a strong community is made of its’ units, and the unit of a strong community is a strong family but I have been appalled at the rate of divorce amo...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm al-ithnayn, 19th day of Muharram 1447AH, Monday, 14th July 2025 *_THE ACCEPTANCE of GOOD DEEDS in ISLAM_*. BismilLah.  Before a Muslim moves another step forward or performs any act or deed, he/she is obliged to acquire knowledge in the path that will lead him/her to the best end, that is, having his good deeds accepted by ALLAH (Al-Wadud, The Loving, The Kind One). It is important to note that what counts is not the number of good deeds or acts of worship performed, for there may be a person who performs many good deeds, yet, all what he gains is tiredness in this life and hardships in the hereafter. Don't finish the act before asking if it's haraam or halaal.  There are two essential conditions that must both be present in every performed good act or deed, so as to ensure their acceptance by ALLAH (Ash-Shaheed, The Witness). First, a Muslim must seek ALLAH (Al-Haqq, The Truth, The Real) alone in the good deeds that he performs. Second, this...

 The dangers of Riyaa'. Alhamdulillah, Riyaa is very dangerous. As we know it nullifies our deeds, but does not take us out of the religion. Riyaa' is small shirk and that is what the messenger of Allah PBUH feared for his ummah. As Allah says in Quran, Al-Baqarah 2:264 يَآأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ لَا تُبۡطِلُواْ صَدَقَٰتِكُم بِٱلۡمَنِّ وَٱلۡأَذَىٰ كَٱلَّذِي يُنفِقُ مَالَهُۥ رِئَآءَ ٱلنَّاسِ وَلَا يُؤۡمِنُ بِٱللَّهِ وَٱلۡيَوۡمِ ٱلۡأٓخِرِۖ فَمَثَلُهُۥ كَمَثَلِ صَفۡوَانٍ عَلَيۡهِ تُرَابࣱ فَأَصَابَهُۥ وَابِلࣱ فَتَرَكَهُۥ صَلۡدࣰاۖ لَّا يَقۡدِرُونَ عَلَىٰ شَيۡءࣲ مِّمَّا كَسَبُواْۗ وَٱللَّهُ لَا يَهۡدِي ٱلۡقَوۡمَ ٱلۡكَٰفِرِينَ O you who have believed, do not invalidate your charities with reminders [of it] or injury as does one who spends his wealth [only] to be seen by the people and does not believe in Allāh and the Last Day. His example is like that of a [large] smooth stone upon which is dust and is hit by a downpour that leaves it bare. They are unable [to keep] anything ...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm al-ithnayn, 19th day of Muharram 1447AH, Monday, 14th July 2025 *_THE ACCEPTANCE of GOOD DEEDS in ISLAM_*. BismilLah.  Before a Muslim moves another step forward or performs any act or deed, he/she is obliged to acquire knowledge in the path that will lead him/her to the best end, that is, having his good deeds accepted by ALLAH (Al-Wadud, The Loving, The Kind One). It is important to note that what counts is not the number of good deeds or acts of worship performed, for there may be a person who performs many good deeds, yet, all what he gains is tiredness in this life and hardships in the hereafter. Don't finish the act before asking if it's haraam or halaal.  There are two essential conditions that must both be present in every performed good act or deed, so as to ensure their acceptance by ALLAH (Ash-Shaheed, The Witness). First, a Muslim must seek ALLAH (Al-Haqq, The Truth, The Real) alone in the good deeds that he performs. Second, this...

 *WHERE* *CAN* *WE* *KEEP* *PROBLEMS* ? ⭕ *If you keep problems in your  head,  you could go Mad. ⭕ *If you keep problems in your heart, you could have heart attack. ⭕ *If you keep problems in your mouth, you will always talk about it & get more depressed. ⭕ *If you keep problems in your house, you will have a broken home. ⭕ *If you keep problems to yourself, you will die early with them. ⭕ _*If you keep problems with your neighbours, they will gossip about it. ⭕ *If you ignore problems, you will only be prolonging the evil day. ⭕ *If you keep problems with your relatives, they'll mock you. ⭕ *lf you keep problems with friends, they'll betray you. ⭕ *lf you keep problems in your face, you will look ugly. ⭕ *If you disclose problems in the office, they will avoid you or you lose respect. ⭕ *If you take your  problems to bed, you will have nightmares. ⭕ *If you take problems to school, you will surely fail. ⭕ *If you take problems to Satan, he will make it worse. ⭕...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul ahad, 18th day of Muharram 1447AH, Sunday, 13th July 2025 *_The ultimate reward of PATIENCE_*. BismilLah.  Firstly, my apologies for the delay in sharing today's reminder.  ALLAH Azzawajal exhorts HIS slaves to seek help with patience and prayer when facing any calamities. ALLAH Azzawajal says “And seek help in patience and As-Salaah (the prayer) and truly, it is extremely heavy and hard except for Al-Khaashi‘oon [i.e. the true believers in ALLAH, those who obey ALLAH with full submission, fear much from HIS punishment, and believe in HIS Promise (Paradise) and HIS Warnings (Hell)]”Quran 2:54. ALLAH Azzawajal states that the victory of attaining Paradise and being saved from Hell will be won only by those who are patient, as HE Azzawajal says “Verily, I have rewarded them this Day for their patience; they are indeed the ones that are successful” 23:111. AlhamdulilLah.  *_May ALLAH (Al-Hayyu and Al-Qayyuum, The Living and the Maintainer...

 *Buy Enough Time* [[-- 9th Show --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Many Muslim husbands and wives treat each other like adversaries rather than partners. The husband feels that he is the boss, and whatever he says goes. The wife feels that she must squeeze everything she can out of her husband. Some wives never show their husband that they are satisfied with anything he does or buys for them in order to trick him into doing and buying more. They make him feel like a failure if he does not give them the lifestyle that their friends and families enjoy. Some husbands speak very harshly to their wives, humiliate them, and even physically abuse them. Their wives have no voice or opinion in the family. This is an Examples of Negative Muslim Husband Wife Relationship. Know, dear sister, dear brother, that you are not a loser in whatever sacrifices you put in your marital relationship, as long as your aim is to please Allah (swt). In fact, the loser is the person who look at t...

 *Hidden Lessons* ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم The 4th Khaleefah of Islam is ʿAli ibn Abu Talib. It is related that once, somebody presented 300 gold coins to the Holy Prophet (pbuh), who made a present of them to Ali. On the way home, Ali saw a harlot to whom he gave one hundred coins. The next day the whole town was gossiping about Ali's misplaced charity for giving the money to a woman of ill repute. Ali felt offended and decided that he would give another hundred coins to a worthier person this time he met a thief and he gave him one hundred coins. The people were critical of Ali squandering the money by giving it to a brigand. Ali decided that whatever money was left with him he would give it to a deserving person. This time he gave the money to a person who happened to be rich man. The people became loud in the criticism of Ali in his charity to undeserving persons. It was, however, revealed to the Holy Prophet that God had accepted the charity of Ali. The harlot...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm As-sabt, 17th day of Muharram 1447AH, Saturday, 12th July 2025. *_IS MY SALAAT VALID IF I NOTICE IMPURITIES ON MY GARMENT AFTER THE SALAAT?_*. BismilLah.  Scholars have ruled based on Quran and Sunnah that ALLAH does not hold us responsible for issues we were not aware of or unintentional mistakes so if you did not know your GARMENT of any type was impure or was contained with urine, sperm or whatever, your salaat is valid and no need to repeat your salaat.  But if you notice any impurities and instead of resolving the issue immediately, you delayed, then forgot and pray with any such impurities from yourself such as after using the toilet or after intercourse with your wife or husband then you must purify yourself and pray again due to the fact that you knew, ignored it and forgot it so it becomes an act of ignorance or carelessness which require you to repeat your salaat after resolving your state of impurity.  And ALLAH knows best....

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul Jumuat, 16th day of Muharram 1447AH, Friday, 11th July 2025. *_CHECK YOUR WAYS OF LIFE_*. Bismillah.  Alhamdulillah, for granting us the opportunity to be part of this blessed day of the week.  Let's note that all calamities are sent by ALLAH Azzawajal because of our sins and are removed because of our repentance. The wisdom to derive from this formula is simple and effective, Imagine we don't face any calamities whilst we keep sinning with passion and getting whatever we want, Satan will keep deviating us making us feel it's normal till death. Remember what ALLAH says, HE does not change the condition of anyone till we change our ways of life to conform with HIS rules and regulations.  Sheikh Ibn Al-Qayyim may ALLAH be pleased with him reported in one of his books that: Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib, may ALLAH be pleased with him, said, “A trial is not sent down except due to a sin, and it is not lifted except with repentance.” Al-Jawab Al-K...

 The story to reflect. Allah has bless us in different way. Alhamdulillah, there lived a young girl who came from a poor family. It is hardly for them to get a meal to eat and the mother was a widow and she was left to take care of this young girl. So one-day, this girl was attending to school and on her journey, she came across a friend who was from rich background. She looked at the girl in a luxury girl and with her school bag dropped to school as she walked barefooted for many miles.. As she was thinking by herself, then she saw this girl in class quiet and to her, she went closer only to discover the girl was paralysed at one side. This made a quiet and could not talk thinking how she had come from a wealthy family, yet she cannot enjoy the wealth... A lesson is whatever we are facing through, we are better than someone there. We fail to realise this because we always compare ourselves with those higher than us. The messenger of Allah PBUH said, Always look at those whom you a...

 *Buy Enough Time* [[-- 8th Show --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم In most cases, not every disagreement between married couples is "ordinary". Yes. Sometimes, you wake up to see your husband or wife turned to showing you hatred or negatively reacting over issues that does not worth creating fight or longtime misunderstanding. The person who loves you so much has turned to someone who hate you so much without convincing reasons. This may not be ordinary in most cases. We have seen cases where strange ladies, women or strange men outside seeking the help of devils to scatter a peaceful marriages or families for selfish reasons. In this case, a wise husband or wife will not quickly resort to picking divorce or "do-me-i-do-you" as the way out. Muslim Faithful! This life is full of improbable events that bring about hurtful consequences and leave us in a deep pit, with no way back to light. Only Allah (swt) can bring us back to light . Yes. But the doubt mi...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Al-khamis, 15th day of Muharram 1447AH, Thursday, 10th July 2025. *_PATIENCE AND REGULAR ZIKIR OR DUA ARE THE INGREDIENTS TO SUCCESS_*. BismilLah.  Our Messenger of ALLAH (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Much silence and a good disposition, there are no two things better than these.” [Authenticated by Imam Al-Bukhari]. “Every man/woman is hidden under his/her own tongue.” The tongue reveals inner beauty as well as inner vileness. Therefore, the safety of a man/woman lies in holding his tongue. Do not judge or marry through the beauty of the face but investigate his or her character especially his or her obedience to ALLAH Azzawajal not only by the beauty and the wealth. If you are married already then manage him or her as a trial from ALLAH Azzawajal and strive to change him or her through dua and patience as dua can even change the qadar of ALLAH Azzawajal.  *_May ALLAH Azzawajal keep guiding and protecting us from any satanic influences...

 *Buy Enough Time* [[-- 7th Show --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم All relationships have their fair share of ups and downs, and you need to work hand in hand with your partner to overcome adverse situations. And, Even if you separate with your wife or husband because he or she is having so so and so undesirable behaviors, definitely, the next person you will marry may have MORE undesirable behaviors (which maybe different from the one's of your ex) since you can't know everything about a man or woman before marriage. My People, Sometimes, one single formula can not change your spouse's undesirable behaviors. Continue to display different formula or tricks until you get a positive result. It all depends on you, your situations and your type of man or woman. Mixing every formula with Du'a in most cases work perfectly. This reminds me, One of the Imams of the masjid i pray once in a while once told me how he dealt with his second wife. Yes. You know Imams wit...

 *❝If a heart becomes attached to anything other than Allah, Allah makes him dependent on what he is attached to. And he will be betrayed by it.❞* — Ibn Al-Qayyim (raḥimahullāh)

 Muslims Till Death: AS SALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU. LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                                *COMMENTARY AND TAFSIR OF THE VERSES OF THE GLORIOUS QURAN (Episode 89)*                                                       ...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm Arba'a, 14th day of Muharram 1447AH, Wednesday, 9th July 2025. *_OUR SALAAT MUST BE OUR PRIORITY IN ALL WE DO_*. BismilLah.  Observance of Salaat serves as the concrete expression of thankfulness and appreciation to our Creator and Sustainer. After each prayer, we not only feel peace and tranquillity but also self-fulfilment because we have performed the primary commandment of ALLAH Azzawajal. It gives us hope that ALLAH Azzawajal will forgive our sins as HE is Most Forgiving. If we sincerely pray to HIM, HE will surely answer our prayer. "And our RABB ALLAH Azzawajal says: 'Call on ME; I will answer your (invocation). But those who are too arrogant to serve ME will surely enter Hell abased.'" (40:60) If we pray to ALLAH, HE will bless our life here on earth and in the Hereafter. The Qur'an teaches us to have a well-balanced life as shown in the following supplication to ALLAH : And among them, there are some who say: "...Our...

 Muslims Till Death: AS SALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU. LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                                *COMMENTARY AND TAFSIR OF THE VERSES OF THE GLORIOUS QURAN (Episode 88)*                                                       ...

 Muslims Till Death: AS SALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU. LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                                *COMMENTARY AND TAFSIR OF THE VERSES OF THE GLORIOUS QURAN (Episode 87)*                                                       ...

 *Buy Enough Time* [[-- 6th Show --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم If bribery can play a positive role in the restoration of peace, love and affection amongst married couples, then, then, Islam will not reject husband bribing his wife with the intention of winning her love or attention and vice versa. This remind me, (1) There was a man I knew who have 2 wives, he have the means of feeding the wives but out of stinginess & weekedness, he was not feeding them, not talk of other necessary things.. One day, the 2 wives got fed up and form alliance to deal with him in their own way.. The 2 wives denied him from browsing their websites for just one week.. The same man came down begging, asking for the reasons why his wives form the alliance to starve him inside bedroom.. The wives told him that, if he want to Google search or browse anyone amongst them, then, he must provide DATA (MB).. He asked them what browsing & Data is all about😃. They told that - *"if he wan...

 *Buy Enough Time* [[-- 5th Show --]] ------------------ بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم This remind me of some people's testimonies which will help in doing justice to this topic: *Testimony No 3:* Mr Usman narrated: "The time i married my wife newly, i noticed she was (1) very weak and lazy when it comes to house work especially the cleanliness aspects of the house work; (2) she don't have waking up for midnight nawafil/Tahajjud in her dictionary... As a newly wedded couple, i thought it is something i can change within 2weeks or one month. I started with talking to her politely about her shortfalls in house work, there was no positive results. I changed face when talking to her about it but no positive results. I tried helping her in this regard, thinking that she will be guilty seeing me doing her duties but no positive results. We used to quarrelled sometimes over this, but the change i saw in this regard was not significant. About the Tahajjud prayer issue, i admonished, advi...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm athalaatha, 13th day of Muharram 1447AH, Tuesday, 8th July 2025. *_PRIVATE MATTERS (Guarding Secrets)_*. BismilLah.  In the Holy Quran. ALLAH, the Exalted, says: "And fulfil (every) covenant. Verily! The covenant will be questioned about.'' (17:34). In Hadith, Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of ALLAH (sallallahualaihiwasallam) said, "The most evil of the people to ALLAH on the Day of Resurrection will be the man who consorts with his wife and then publicises her secret. [By Imam Muslim]. Islam treats conjugal union as a sacred and secret act, both in social and moral terms. Indeed, the sanctity of conjugal rights contributes to the consolidation of moral norms and social cohesion. Yet, what passes between wife and husband on the consummation night is usually taken in a light vein in our societies. In the morning, both of them relate their sexual experience to their friends respectively. This is mora...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm athalaatha, 13th day of Muharram 1447AH, Tuesday, 8th July 2025. *_SECRECY of PRIVATE MATTERS (Guarding Secrets)_*. BismilLah.  Let's remind each other that this week is one of the best golden days for fasting from yesterday Monday sunnah fasting and from today's 13th to Thursday 15th of Muharram fasting. Whoever can fast must embrace this meritorious week.  In the Holy Quran. ALLAH, the Exalted, says: "And fulfil (every) covenant. Verily! The covenant will be questioned about.'' (17:34). In Hadith, Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of ALLAH (sallallahualaihiwasallam) said, "The most evil of the people to ALLAH on the Day of Resurrection will be the man who consorts with his wife and then publicises her secret. [By Imam Muslim]. Islam treats conjugal union as a sacred and secret act, both in social and moral terms. Indeed, the sanctity of conjugal rights contributes to the consolidation of mor...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawm al-ithnayn, 12th day of Muharram 1447AH, Monday, 7th July 2025. *_REGULAR REMEMBRANCE OF ALLAH IS THE SECRET TO A PEACEFUL AND HAPPY LIFE_*. BismilLah.  There are numerous places in the Qur'an where ALLAH Azzawajal assure us that when we remember HIM regularly by acknowledging HIS greatness and Praising HIM, Seeking forgiveness etc, we will find peace within our life and succeed in life and the Hereafter. Let's explore a few from the Quran.  Remember ALLAH Azzawajal abundantly, in order that you become successful" Quran 8:45). "Believers, do not let either your possessions or your children divert you from the Remembrance of ALLAH. Those who do that shall be the losers". Quran 63:9). "Only in the remembrance of ALLAH (swt) will your heart find peace" Quran 13:28). You need more? Please check the following verses; Quran 20:124), Quran 33:35, Quran 72:17, Quran 58:19, Quran 4:190), Quran 39:23, Quran 39:22, Quran 29:45, Quran ...

 Muslims Till Death: AS SALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU. LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                                *COMMENTARY AND TAFSIR OF THE VERSES OF THE GLORIOUS QURAN (Episode 86)*                                                       ...

 Muslims Till Death: AS SALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU. LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇.                                                                                *COMMENTARY AND TAFSIR OF THE VERSES OF THE GLORIOUS QURAN (Episode 85)*                                                       ...

 DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDER. Yawmul ahad, 11th day of Muharram 1447AH, Sunday, 6th July 2025. *_OUR ROLE WHEN PROVIDING ADVICE_*. BismilLah.  As human beings, no one is perfect. We all make mistakes especially against ALLAH Azzawajal and to others. This advice is first of all to myself then to you the reader. I feel guilty when preparing this reminder but in Islam, we must speak the truth even if it is against ourselves hoping that through that ALLAH Azzawajal can guide us from our errors and mistakes in life.  When correcting others, let's choose words that aim to “advise” rather than condemn, demean, or punish the other. Avoid correcting the other person when your emotions are running high. If your intention is to ensure longer-term behaviour change in the other person without hurting your relationship, save the advice for the future when you are more in control of your emotions. Angrily advising someone is bound to push the other to erect barriers rather than staying open ...