Buy Enough Time* [[-- 6th Show --]]

 *Buy Enough Time*

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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

If bribery can play a positive role in the restoration of peace, love and affection amongst married couples, then, then, Islam will not reject husband bribing his wife with the intention of winning her love or attention and vice versa.

This remind me,

(1) There was a man I knew who have 2 wives, he have the means of feeding the wives but out of stinginess & weekedness, he was not feeding them, not talk of other necessary things.. One day, the 2 wives got fed up and form alliance to deal with him in their own way.. The 2 wives denied him from browsing their websites for just one week.. The same man came down begging, asking for the reasons why his wives form the alliance to starve him inside bedroom.. The wives told him that, if he want to Google search or browse anyone amongst them, then, he must provide DATA (MB).. He asked them what browsing & Data is all about😃. They told that - *"if he want to have sex, then, provide feeding money everyday"* - and wallahi the man changed immediately to a responsible husband.

Now,

*How To Handle A Difficult Husband Or Wife When it Comes to Change:*

Continuation of the previous episodes - as promised.

*Tip No 2:* Get to the Root of the Problem

If for instance, "Anger issues" typically stem from the fact that your partner’s needs are not being met. If you find your partner worrying about trivial things, pause for a second, and assess if there’s a larger, underlying problem at hand.

In such a situation, put yourself in your partner’s shoes and look at things from their perspective. Reverse the roles and see how you feel. Rather than pushing the point across.

My People,

Even the laws in Islam came to us bit-by-bit. For instance, during jahileeyyah (before the prophethood of Muhammad - pbuh), People were drinking alcohol. So, if the prohibition came that people should stop drinking alcohol COMPLETELY, it will be difficult for them to practice Islam. So, the first prohibition for alcohol drinking was - *"Don't drink while you want to pray"* - and jahileeyyah people at that time used to drink few hours before swalah time.. Then, Allah (swt) revealed the final laws for prohibition of alcohol drinking, which is - *"Don't drink alcohol at all, for any reason"* - A verse in Surarul Baqarah and Suratul Maidah is prove for these... Allahu Akbar!

This is telling us that, it's not easy to change someone's behaviors within a tinkle of an eye. Yes. Some of your spouse's undesirable behaviors will go off completely, but it will take little time.

To be continued