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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

All relationships have their fair share of ups and downs, and you need to work hand in hand with your partner to overcome adverse situations.

And,

Even if you separate with your wife or husband because he or she is having so so and so undesirable behaviors, definitely, the next person you will marry may have MORE undesirable behaviors (which maybe different from the one's of your ex) since you can't know everything about a man or woman before marriage.

My People,

Sometimes, one single formula can not change your spouse's undesirable behaviors. Continue to display different formula or tricks until you get a positive result. It all depends on you, your situations and your type of man or woman. Mixing every formula with Du'a in most cases work perfectly.

This reminds me,

One of the Imams of the masjid i pray once in a while once told me how he dealt with his second wife. Yes. You know Imams with steadfastness when it comes to Ibadah. Unfortunately for this Imam, the second wife he married was then, very weak when it comes to steadfastness in acts of ibadah. The Imam married her few weeks before the commencement of the Ramadan fast. According to the Imam:

*"I observed that my second wife hardly observe some obligatory swalah at its prescribed times. When it comes to nawafil, she was zero. Even inside the month of Ramadan when you will see everybody striving to pray in the night, she was....😷. I exhausted all the methods i have to change her, but the results was not positively significant. Then, i now used plan 🅱️, which is withdrawal of some things i used to buy for her and for her breakfast. The first day, i did not buy items for cooking good soup (as i used to) and no single fruit was purchased for her breakfast. She asked me to know whether it's the money i do not have. I told her No, and even showed her the balance in my Bank account. She asked me why i refused and i told her that - 'you don't do this this this and that despite all my warning and preachings'.. She thought i was joking. The following day, i repeated the treatment. Guess what! She changed almost all the undesirable behaviors i was suffering preaching to her for change "*.. Alhamdulillah!!!

To be continued


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