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بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

In most cases, not every disagreement between married couples is "ordinary". Yes. Sometimes, you wake up to see your husband or wife turned to showing you hatred or negatively reacting over issues that does not worth creating fight or longtime misunderstanding. The person who loves you so much has turned to someone who hate you so much without convincing reasons. This may not be ordinary in most cases.

We have seen cases where strange ladies, women or strange men outside seeking the help of devils to scatter a peaceful marriages or families for selfish reasons. In this case, a wise husband or wife will not quickly resort to picking divorce or "do-me-i-do-you" as the way out.

Muslim Faithful!

This life is full of improbable events that bring about hurtful consequences and leave us in a deep pit, with no way back to light. Only Allah (swt) can bring us back to light . Yes. But the doubt might cloud our judgment and we tend to forget the fact that it's only Allah (swt) who can truly bring us back to life and help us face the hardships and falling deep down the pit.

My People!

Instead of blaming yourself for marrying your husband or wife because he or she changed from being lovely to something else, key into reciting *"Ayatul-Kurseey"* as many times as you can in your house. Yes. No specific time, no specific number.. Recite this verse -  *"Ayatul-Kurseey"* when you are in your house, preferably loudly with a volume which is moderate. Yes. Moderate volume that can be heard by anyone closer (using witr number like 3x, 7x,...... 21x or more) with the intention of Allah (swt) helping you dilute any plot of shayateen from human beings and wicked jinns. Do this when you are at home for few days or weeks (depending on your level of piety) because the more you avoid commiting sins, the faster your Du'a meet Allah's acceptance.

Servants Of Allah!

When we hold the rope of Allah tightly, we will not be harmed by any magic and the evil eye. But if we pick patronizing fortunetellers or so-called 419 Alfas or Mallams, even if we experience relief, it's going to be an invitation of the bigger episodes of similar troubles. So, reciting Ayatul-Kurseey with other supplications keeps us safe from ALL evils permanently, and strengthen our faith in Allah’s help and His power.

Now,

*How To Handle A Difficult Husband Or Wife When it Comes to Change:*

Continuation of the previous episodes - as promised.

*Tip No 4:* Accept your spouse for who they are

One of the root causes of a conflict or your spouse not getting along is comparing Mr A or Mrs B you see outside with your spouse, thinking that such people you don't know much about them are perfect and better than your spouse. Hmmmm... By the time you get very close to those people and see their own shortfalls, then, you will.....😷.

After all,

Nobody is 100% bad just like nobody is 100% good. Yes. Allah (swt) have reminded us that:

وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِٱلْمَعْرُوفِۚ فَإِن كَرِهْتُمُوهُنَّ فَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكْرَهُوا۟ شَيْـًٔا وَيَجْعَلَ ٱللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا

"And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allāh makes therein much good for you. 📚An-Nisa' 4:19

So, accept your better half for who they are, work patiently to changing him or her.....

To be continued