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*Let's Change Our Mindsets About Marriage*
*Episode 305*
*Principles In Familial Stability*
*5. The Fifth Principle: Patience between the
spouses is a necessary affair, and there is no doing without it for both of them.*
And this is a continuation of the aforementioned
matters; The woman exercises patience, and the
husband [too] exercises patience, especially when there
is that which entails patience. Some women perhaps
complain of lack of expenditure, however, if we look at
the husband, we would find that he did that which is
within capability under his circumstances, so she should
not burden him with that which is beyond that. Similarly,
the husband: he looks to the condition of the wife, her
changing conditions, her circumstances, her mental
conditions, he takes into consideration these things, he
is patient.
Allah —glorified and exalted be He— said: “but give
glad tidings to As-Sabirun (the patient)”. [2:155]. He said:
“Only those who are patient shall receive their rewards in
full, without reckoning”. [39:10]. The
Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said:
“And there is no gift better and vast (you may be given)
than patience”. [Bukhari, 6470]. The wife is patient with
her husband and the husband is patient with his wife,
such that the living between them lasts.
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