Suffering in Silence* [[--- Episode 13 ---]]

 *Suffering in Silence*

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*"A woman who stands by her man deserves a man who stands in gratitude."*

بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet (pbuh) said, *“Whoever does not thank people has not thanked Allah.”*📚Source: Sunan Abi‌ Da‌wu‌d 4811

Marriage is a partnership built on love, respect, and mutual effort. Yet, one of the most overlooked aspects of a thriving marriage is *appreciation*—especially toward wives who tirelessly hold the home together. Many husbands today neglect this simple yet profound act, not realizing that *"a little praise goes a long way."*

Muslim Faithful!

A married woman’s heart thrives on acknowledgment. When a husband recognizes her efforts—whether through kind words, a warm embrace, or a simple "thank you"—it acts as a *powerful booster* to her spirit. Sadly, many men take their wives for granted, forgetting that *"what is sweet to the eye is often bitter to the soul."* A woman may smile through her daily struggles, but deep down, she yearns for validation. 

The bitter truth is,

*"If a man does housework for a day, he will know that stone is different from biscuits😀."* 

Women perform countless domestic tasks *daily, for years, without complaint*—cooking, cleaning, childcare, and managing the household. Yet, if a man were subjected to the same routine for just *24 hours*, he would realize that *"what is light on the tongue is heavy on the back."* 

Also,

A wife may occasionally fall short in her responsibilities—maybe a delayed meal, an untidy house, or a forgotten errand. But instead of understanding, many husbands react with frustration, forgetting that *"even the moon has its dark spots."* Yes. Women are not machines; they are human beings with limits.

Today,

Some women contribute financially, emotionally, and morally to their households. Such wives are *rare gems*, yet many husbands forget to appreciate them. Whether through *kind words, gifts, or affectionate gestures*, appreciation fuels her spirit to do even more. Remember: *"A river that forgets its source will soon run dry."* If a woman gives her all, the least she deserves is acknowledgment. 

Ending this topic,

A Muslim woman who accepts Allah’s decree allowing polygamy demonstrates *immense patience and faith*. Yet, instead of being cherished, some are met with neglect or comparison. If roles were reversed — *if men had to endure multiple husbands*—they would quickly realize that *"sharing a heart is harder than sharing a home😀."* Yes. A husband must treat each wife with kindness, fairness, and gratitude, for *"a thankful heart is a magnet for blessings."*

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