A LESSON IN PATIENCE WITH WIFE

 🍀بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم🍀

ﷺ ♥‌‌‌🍃ﷺ♥‌‌‌🍃ﷺ

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*A LESSON IN PATIENCE WITH WIFE*

*The man whose love outshone a thousand fairy tales...💕 love story behind Tayammum*

_While the Prophet ﷺ and the Sahaba  were out on expedition, and as was his practice, Nabi ﷺ would take one of his wives along._

Aisha Siddeeqa, was happy to have accompanied her husband on this trip.

_They passed a place called *Zaatul Jaish* and Aisha realised her necklace was missing._

_As any woman who has lost jewelry will know, it creates panic!_

_She rushed to Nabi ﷺ in her distress and what did he do?_

❓ Did he swat away her female concern?

❓ Did he tell her so what’s the big deal?

❓ Did he shush her because he ﷺ was at the head of a huge numbered expedition?

*No*

_*He tried to soothe her concerns and he stopped the entire army.*_

_*Yes, Nabi ﷺ stopped the entire army. To look for his wife’s necklace.*_

_Now the Sahaba,they saw Nabi  ﷺ searching, so some joined him. What was important to RasulAllah ﷺwas important to them as well._

_Night fell and still Nabi ﷺ did not order the army to move on because his wife’s necklace had not been found._

💖 He ﷺ then placed his head on her lap and drifted off to sleep, hoping in the morning light, it would be spotted.

★ The people complained to the father of Aisha, Abu Bakr that his daughter had stopped Nabi ﷺ and the entire army at a water-less place and neither did the people have water with them, what would they do for Fajr??

⚡ *Let us understand the concern for salaah here*

Abu Bakr grew angry with his daughter and rushed to scold her, perhaps feeling she was taking advantage of her husband’s soft nature.

_Nabi ﷺ never scolded her, neither did he side with the people but made her feel firmly that he ﷺ was on her team._

Dawn broke and Fajr time arrived, the people were agitated.

What happened?

📍 *Allah revealed the ayah and law of Tayammum. (Surah 5 Maaida;Ayah 6)-*

*..and you do not find any water then resort to Tayammum – find clean soil and rub your faces and hands with it. Allah does not wish to burden you; He only wishes to purify you and to perfect His favor upon you, so that you may be thankful.*

_Imagine the joy and relief for Sahaba RA! Especially when they traveled in the desert._

★ After this, Sahaba congratulated the family of Abu Bakr, for being a cause of another blessing on them.

*Then guess what happened?*

_The camel of Aisha  moved and her necklace was found!_

❓ Did Nabi ﷺ get irritated with her because it was right there all the time?

_*Nope. He shared her relief.*_

⚡ _How much more harmony there would be in society if we overlook small things and empathize with people?_

⚡ _What if we had the patience of the Prophet ﷺ? How much more a beautiful relationship we would be able to enjoy._

🍃🌹🍃🌹🍃🌹🍃🌹🍃🌹.