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MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm As-Sabt. 25th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Saturday, 9th December, 2023). *_MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS_*. BismilLah. Let's conclude on our topic today. It was narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn ‘Abbaas said: The Messenger of ALLAH (blessings and peace of ALLAH be upon him) said: “Shall I not tell you about your wives among the people of Paradise: the one who is loving, fertile, and beneficial to her husband, who if she is upset or annoyed, she comes and takes her husband’s hand, then she says: ‘By ALLAH, I shall not sleep until you are pleased with me.” Narrated by an-Nasaa’i in as-Sunan al-Kubra (9094); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in as-Saheehah (287). What is well-established in psychology, and what is known from experience, is that stubbornness and arguing with a husband who is not patient with lengthy discussions and arguments will only result in bad consequences for the marriage and will increase resentment between the...

MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawmul Jumuat. 24th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Friday, 8th December, 2023). *_MARRIED COUPLE ARGUING IN FRONT OF THEIR KIDS_*. BismilLah. We are advised as married couples not to respond to criticism with more arguments and stubbornness from the other half because this will put more strain on the connection between you, which can easily break the marriage. Being more easygoing and diplomatic is something that is required from both parties. It is required from the husband, in the form of kindness, overlooking mistakes and showing compassion, and it is required from the religiously committed, smart and wise wife to put up with the annoyance of her husband, and not to be so harsh with him if he is harsh with her; rather you should be easy-going, as much as you can, avoid provoking his anger and not be confrontational. You should be as gentle as you can and be soft with him. As the saying goes, beyond every successful married man is a good ...

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 51)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 51)* _______PAGE 1_______ Uthman gave his defense, but this did not make Ali change his views. On the other hand Uthman stuck to the view that he had done no wrong, and he had become a victim of false propaganda. The differences between Uthman and Ali pointed to the fact that something had gone wrong with the Muslim polity, and that the Muslims were no longer a united commu...

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 50)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 50)* _______PAGE 1_______ In a letter addressed to the people of Kufa, Uthman hoped that as he had acceded to their demand there would be no more trouble from their side. On assuming office as Governor Abu Musa Ashari warned the people to desist from their subversive activities. He said that he would not lead them in prayer until they had assured him of their loyalty to Uthman. The people assured him of their loyalty to Uthman and gave a solemn undertaking that they would maintain peace and would not indulge in any agitation. 'Aamir b Abdullah Tamimi was an eminent Muslim. He s...

MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR WE THE BROTHERS IN PARTICULAR

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Al-Khamis. 23rd day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Thursday, 7th December, 2023). *_MARRIAGE ADVISE FOR WE THE BROTHERS IN PARTICULAR_*. BismilLah. AlhamdulilLah for granting us another blessed day of the week and I hope and pray that majority of us are fasting. May ALLAH accept it from us all. Aameen. Just to remind myself and you the reader that marriage is a trust from ALLAH. You first married her because you love her and she loves you. Be aware that Satan will strive to bring misunderstandings in the marriage because he is our enemy and also a trial from ALLAH. We all know that marriage is an act of worship which then means we will face satanic influences and trials from ALLAH so let's not fail. Let's be firm and accept her mistakes as a test from ALLAH. Let's be patient with her for better moments and for worse moments. Never shout at her or touch her in anger, never speak against her parents etc bcs these are satanic tool...

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 49)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 49)* _______PAGE 1_______ The Muslims made several raids on the Byzantine coasts. The Byzantine capital itself was now threatened by a two pronged attack, one from the east via Syria and Asia Minor, and the other from the west via Spain and Europe. The foreign powers became nervous at the success of the Muslim arms under the leadership of Uthman, and now their only hope lay in aiding and patronizing subversive movements within the territories of Islam. Ibn Saba's movement began as a religious movement. It aimed at the subversion of Islam by creating doubts among the Muslims wit...

EXCELLENCE and ETIQUETTES of SINCERE LOVE FOR THE SAKE of ALLAH

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm Ath-thalaatha. 21st day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Tuesday, 5th December, 2023). *_EXCELLENCE and ETIQUETTES of SINCERE LOVE FOR THE SAKE of ALLAH_*. Bismillah. Anas bin Malik (May ALLAH be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, "There are three qualities whoever has them, will taste the sweetness of eemaan: To love ALLAH and HIS Messenger (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) more than anyone else; to love a slave (of ALLAH) only for (the sake of) ALLAH; and to abhor returning to infidelity after ALLAH has saved him from it as he would abhor to be thrown into the fire (of Hell)". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. In this Hadith, the love of ALLAH signiffies the sweetness of eeman. The love of ALLAH and HIS Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) is the cornerstone of the Faith. When it is said that this love should exceed one's love for everything else in the universe, it means that what is enjoined by ALLAH and ...

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 48)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 48)* _______PAGE 1_______ Years later when Hajjaj became the Governor of Kufa, he tried Ummair and Kammil for the murder of Uthman and had them executed. Ammar b Yasir is one of the companions of the Holy Prophet who is regarded as a critic of Uthman. Whatever accounts have come down to us are too biased and prejudiced to be reliable. 'Ammar s father Yasir belonged to Yemen. He migrated to Makka, and became attached to the Bani Makhzum section of the Quraish. Ammar's mother Samia served as a maid. 'Ammar accepted Islam at an early age. At his instance his father and mother also...

EXCELLENCE and ETIQUETTES of SINCERE LOVE FOR THE SAKE of ALLAH

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 47)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 47)* _______PAGE 1_______ Talha Bun Ubaidullah was an eminent Companion. At the time of the death of Umar, Talha was out of Madina. When he returned to Madina, the oath of allegiance had been taken to Uthman. Talha felt annoyed that the new Caliph had been elected in his absence. He showed some hesitation in offering allegiance to Uthman, but Uthman placated him and he offered allegiance to Uthman. It is reported that Talha owed some money to Uthman, and Uthman gifted the money to him. According to some of the accounts that have come down to us, it appears that on a...

WE MUST STRIVE TO EARN PARADISE

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawm al-ithnayn. 20th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Monday, 4th December, 2023). *_WE MUST STRIVE TO EARN PARADISE_*. BismilLah. Please note that "Every human is a slave. You're either a slave of your desires or a slave of ALLAH. You either live life by your rules or the rules of ALLAH. How can the heart travel to ALLAH if it's chained by its desires of this temporary world? Sheikh Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyah said O' son of Aadam! Sell this World for the hereafter and you will win both, sell the hereafter for this world & you will lose both. Meaning if you stick to obedience to the CREATOR ALLAH you will benefit from this world and the hereafter but if you abandon ALLAH'S rules and follow as you wish, you loose both. Islam is not a buffet where you pick and choose what suits you. Don't obey your desires. Obey ALLAH. "Imprisoned is he, whose heart is imprisoned from ALLAH. Captured is he, who is captured by his or her desires...

WHO IS YOUR CLOSE FRIEND

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawmul Ahad. 19th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Sunday, 3rd December, 2023). *_WHO IS YOUR CLOSE FRIEND_*. BismilLah. Brothers and Sisters in Islam! Lets Fear ALLAH in secret and in public, do not transgress ALLAH'S limits and do NOT disobey ALLAH in secret as we can't hide from ALLAH. ALLAH says in the Qur'an: "Verily, he who fears ALLAH with obedience to HIM, (by abstaining from sins and evil deeds and by performing righteous good deeds), and is patient, then surely ALLAH makes not the reward of the good-doers be lost."Yusuf 12:90. ALLAH Almighty created mankind, and made socialising a part of his nature. Human beings therefore, either associates with the righteous, or with the wrong people or you will have a relationship with numerous material things in the form of the television, video tapes, music, magazines etc. People tend to sit with those who have the same nature as them. The good person is inclined to mix with the good, ...

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 46)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 46)* _______PAGE 1_______ He began to criticize Uthman. According to the accounts that have come down to us Abdullah b Masud levelled the accusation that some of the verses against the Bani Umayyads had been suppressed. Walid b Uqba also took some loan from the Baitul Mall He failed to return the loan within the stipulated period and that became the subject-matter of dispute between Walid and Abdullah. Walid complained to Uthman, and Uthman is reported to have taken objection to his conduct against the Governor. Thereupon Abdullah b Masud resigned his office, and c...

PRACTICE THE ESCAPE-PHENOMENON IN AN EFFORT TO CURE YOUR DEPRESSION

THE DAILY ISLAMIC REMINDERS. Yawmul Jumuat. 18th day of Jumaadal Awwal, 1445AH (Saturday 2nd of December, 2023). *_PRACTICE THE ESCAPE-PHENOMENON IN AN EFFORT TO CURE YOUR DEPRESSION_*. Bismillah. Some scholars of Islaam have develop this highly advanced skill to learn which is difficult but very effective which is actually sunnah. By Escape Phenomenon I’m not implying that you should escape your surroundings everytime you feel depressed. There’s a fine balance that needs to be maintained. You need to learn emotional resilience as well, another cool skill that will help you stay strong in tough emotional situations. When the negativity around you ( whether in your social circle, house, workplace, relationship etc) gets too much for you to handle, politely get up and walk away,. In marriage, its good to separate for some days or weeks to reset yourself. Nobody understands exactly what’s going on your head, but you do. If the noise around you is getting louder and making you anxious...

THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 45)

ASSALAAMU ALAYKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARAKAATUHU . LET'S START TONIGHT'S EDUCATION. OUR TOPIC IS 👇. *THE STORY OF CALIPHATE UTHMAN (r.t.a) (Episode 45)* _______PAGE 1_______ The State was under an obligation that the real needs of the people were met. Uthman pointed out that he had raised the stipends of the people, and these were enough to meet their needs. Some pers...