Don't Forget This [[-Episode 19-]]

 Don't Forget This

[[-Episode 19-]]
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بسم الله الرحمان الرجيم

Religious leaders preach patience but rarely hold men accountable for emotional neglect. The neglected wife is told to *"make dua"* (pray), while the husband faces no consequences for his imbalance.

Also,

Communities often turn a blind eye, whispering *"it’s a private matter"* or *"she should be more patient."* But as the proverb goes, *"The axe forgets, but the tree remembers."* These women carry scars no one sees.

Muslim Faithful,

Al-Qurtubi (r.h.) said: *“If you have power over your wife, then remember the Might of Allah; Allah’s Might is over every might, so no one should transgress his wife, as Allah Almighty, is indeed in observation and watching.”* 📚[End of quote]

My brothers,

Your wives are a trust (Amanah) from Allah. I've observed many men who treat their wives like nobody, forgetting that their actions is undoubtedly exposing the innocent woman into emotional/psychological trauma.

Islamically, It's good to note that "Marriage" does not give anyone the right to abuse their partner physically, sexually, emotionally, or in any other way.

Actually,

There is no doubt that just as the husband leads his wife to Paradise or to Hellfire, the wife may also lead him to Paradise or to Hellfire. This is because she has rights upon him in the same manner that he has rights upon her.

My people!

The woman is in need of mercy because of the nature of her physical structure and her need for someone to take care of her affairs. For this reason, the Prophet described women to be similar to a soft glass which should be handled with gentleness and care. That is the reason behind the emphasis of Islam on dealing with the wife with kindness and care, and God reiterated that the basic building blocks of matrimony are mercy, affection and serenity. Allah (swt) says,

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought” 📚(Quran30:21).

To be continued...