Don't Forget This [[-Episode 21-]]

 Don't Forget This

[[-Episode 21-]]
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بسم الله الرحمان الرجيم

*First Issue:*

Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet (pbuh) said, *“Whoever does not thank people has not thanked Allah.”*📚Source: Sunan Abi‌ Da‌wu‌d 4811

Now,

A married woman’s heart thrives on acknowledgment. When a husband recognizes her efforts—whether through kind words, a warm embrace, or a simple "thank you"—it acts as a *powerful booster* to her spirit. Sadly, many men take their wives for granted, forgetting that *"what is sweet to the eye is often bitter to the soul."* A woman may smile through her daily struggles, but deep down, she yearns for validation. 

The bitter truth is,

*"If a man does housework for a day, he will know that stone is different from biscuits😀."* 

Women perform countless domestic tasks *daily, for years, without complaint*—cooking, cleaning, childcare, and managing the household. Yet, if a man were subjected to the same routine for just *24 hours*, he would realize that *"what is light on the tongue is heavy on the back."* 

Also,

A wife may occasionally fall short in her responsibilities—maybe a delayed meal, an untidy house, or a forgotten errand. But instead of understanding, many husbands react with frustration, forgetting that *"even the moon has its dark spots."* Yes. Women are not machines; they are human beings with limits.

Today,

Some women contribute financially, emotionally, and morally to their households. Such wives are *rare gems*, yet many husbands forget to appreciate them. Whether through *kind words, gifts, or affectionate gestures*, appreciation fuels her spirit to do even more.

*Second Issue:*

In Islam, the permission to marry more wife is ONLY given to married men who pay a MINIMUM of 80% family bills and still have excess financial powers to carry more responsibilities. Yes. Outside this, it's a sin to engage in any relationship with the intention of marriage, because even the first marriage is not compulsory if you can't pay the bills.

Evidence:

وَلْيَسْتَعْفِفِ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يَجِدُونَ نِكَاحًا حَتَّىٰ يُغْنِيَهُمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِۦۗ

"But let those who find not the means for marriage abstain from it and sexual relations until Allāh enriches them from His bounty. 📚An-Nur 24:33

We must also remember that — A man who takes multiple wives holds the happiness of multiple lives in his hands.

To be continued...